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Your Girlfriend WILL Cheat On You! Unless...

RPSigmaStigma

January 13, 2015

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Julian and Todd from RSD explain what it takes to keep your woman interested in you, keep her from cheating or dumping you, and what women are looking for in their man on a constant basis.

A lot of RP truths here. Some of the big points:

Women are attracted to value.
As soon as you "get comfortable" in your relationship, she'll start to lose interest.
You must be a constantly self-actualizing man.
People commit "little suicides" on a daily basis by passing up opportunities, shying away from challenges and not creating success.
Live for greatness instead of being too busy avoiding negative emotions that you never take chances.

I know we've all had this realization coming to TRP, but this video will do a great job of driving it home, and inspiring you to keep it up.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4HghViV1Trg

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Title	Your Girlfriend WILL Cheat On You! Unless...
Author	RPSigmaStigma
Upvotes	0
Comments	15
Date	January 13, 2015 7:58 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2sbd24/your_girlfriend_will_cheat_on_you_unless/
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[–]jcrpta3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Let's look at this from another angle.

People who are happy in their relationships seldom cheat.

It follows, then, that the woman who cheats is in some way unhappy.

It'd be nice to imagine that the unhappy woman will recognise this and try to do something about it - something less drastic than cheating, perhaps. Alas, experience tells us this doesn't really happen. It is the mans job to take the lead here as elsewhere in life; if the relationship isn't really working, it's his job to take the lead and fix it.

How does he do this? Well, he can't force his SO to be happy. But he can do everything in his power to make things better.

Up to this point, RP and BP ideas are actually pretty similar. The difference lies in how they try and solve this problem.

BP ideas concentrate on the relationship itself rather than the people in it: "Cook her food, clean the house, rub her back, don't for God's sake ask for sex".

RP ideas say "That shit simply doesn't work. Be the best, strongest, smartest man you can possibly be, and make sure it is quite clear from your actions that you can and will jump ship if she doesn't want to participate".

[–]RPSigmaStigmaMarried- MRP APPROVED[S] 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]En_sigmaMarried- MRP APPROVED4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Your powers are weak, old man. I have been married 20+ and the only thing I get angry over is her trying to talk coupons over the game.

Our differences stem from our positions on female morality. This is a common dichotomy throughout the 'sphere in that I am not the first, nor the last to have a problem with "Rollo's Rules." There are many posts that take on the fact that women do have moral agency, rationality, responsibility, and accountability. To deny that they have these things is to make them something less than human. While I am positive you have no problems marrying something outside of the human race, the dichotomy exist that I do not.

Rollo's position is that logic, rationality, morality and love are exclusively male traits that cannot exist in women. His position is that it is right to have these things (as he is using them to write his posts), but that we cannot expect those same traits to be present in women. His position continues that it should be considered right that they not be present in women - because all they want is superior genes and have absolutely no power to deny an alpha male. Which is a position taken by a good many 'sphere bloggers.

She is a reflection of you only so far as your behavior reflects bad upon the organization you work for, the commanding officer of your battalion, your school or your family. I did not cheat, nor will I be thought of as one if she decides to cheat All of that is on her.

[–]RPSigmaStigmaMarried- MRP APPROVED[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Alright man, it sounds like you've got everything figured out for yourself. So let me ask you, and this is a serious question, no sarcasm at all: why are you here?

I'm here to try to present useful, actionable advice to a community that has greatly helped me over the past year.

My experiences are obviously different from yours. I've always kind of known on an intuitive level that women are less logical and more emotional than men, long before I discovered TRP, and that view was developed from years of experience in dealing with women. Maybe the women you've dealt with have always been logical, rational and not emotionally flighty, but that flies in the face of my experience, and the experience of the men who have built up the red pill community.

But anyway, I'll let you have the last word after this.

[–]En_sigmaMarried- MRP APPROVED3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link