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Are women irl as toxic as the toxic feminists on reddit?

May 10, 2023

The more i see Feminist trolls the more i feel scared of actually facing women irl. And my distrust only grows because you don't know which of the women is a toxic feminist. And apart from the obvious ones that are condescending it's hard to identify the toxic ones imo.

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[–]GroundbreakingAnt322[S] 19 points20 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Also why am I scared of being found repulsive to women? For some reason the thought of being found repulsive scares me and evokes a lot of fear in me.

[–]wes_bestern 20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because women determine how others feel about you.

[–]Make-TFT-Fun-Again 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Evolutionary drive to procreate. Personal need for validation. It’s okay bro most of us have that.

[–]popularwalnut 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because you don’t have a foundation of who you are and let women’s judgement of you dictate your worth

[–]no_user_ID_found 30 points31 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Some are, most aren’t.

Some have no idea about them supporting double standards. Some really seem to think straight white guys get promotions and CEO positions thrown at them on a daily basis. Few just really hate men and think that’s progressive. Most just live their lives just like you.

I’ve only met a true men-hating feminazi once irl. Several hundreds online. Do your math.

[–]GroundbreakingAnt322[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

How is it that on reddit there are so many? Are some reddit trolls normal irl?

[–]Alwaysaloneforever97 2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Because on reddit it's as easy as going into a community of your chosen ideology and hitting subscribe lol.

[–]GroundbreakingAnt322[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

I don't mean that way. I mean. Trolls. So usually they troll on mensrights subs and leftwingmaleadvocates or askmen. So it isn't as simple as hitting subscribe no??

[–]Alwaysaloneforever97 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

That's simple too, they're angry and hate men, so they look at men's subs to invade lol.

[–]GroundbreakingAnt322[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Seems a bit weird to hate on men no?

Is what they say true? About men creeping on women's subs ? Is the shame they place on those men warranted ?

[–]Alwaysaloneforever97 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Nah. They called me a creep just for asking questions on women's subs some of them even said "hey he just wants to learn" and they'd just yell scream and contact the mods to ban me.

"Creep" is a dehumanizing term they can use to label any opposition. "Creep" is bad. If you're a creep. You're bad.

It's like if I called someone with slight political differences a nazi. Uh oh, he's a nazi, so he's irrelevant now.

[–]GroundbreakingAnt322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah for all their bluster and wanting to propogate women's rights i though the least they would want to do with is let others learn. I stopped looking at their spaces ever since i saw them attack some dude. Although if they really wanted to keep it private they would have turned their sub private. Or verified. Or women flair only. Seems a bit counterintuitive. Their words and actions. Thanks man

[–]Geiten 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Probably depends on where you live, but overall, no.

[–]ChrongrariusWimble 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It definitely has bled out into real life more than is acceptable, but it's nowhere near as bad as people on the internet think it is.

[–]Avrangor 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No, people in real life are far more chill. That’s because the internet only shows one side of someone whereas humans are much more complex than that.

[–]ZulutheZebra 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It depends on a lot of factors. For me personally, I have met tons of “casual” feminists that parrot talking points about the Patriarchy, Wage gap etc etc but they don’t hold a candle to the man haters on the internet in terms of vitriol. It is annoying to deal with the constant low key complaints, the casual misandry and put down of men but I also accept a lot of it is hand in hand with living in a city of any size. To answer your question though I would say that no, women irl are not nearly as toxic as the feminists on Reddit.

[–]needalife94 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

In my personal opinion, no, women as a whole are not toxic like the toxic feminists are. There are toxic women and toxic feminists just like there are toxic men and toxic MRA's. I would say that more and more women are waking up to feminism just hating on men.

When you say "facing women", are you talking about befriending them or getting to know them to date them?

For the distrust thing I would argue that you shouldn't just trust someone you just met. No matter what the gender is.

[–]GroundbreakingAnt322[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I have previous trauma from the women in my family. I am not actually looking to date. Just friends. I don't have guy friends either. Mostly i distrust them because I'm scared i don't know who's trying to use me.

I see. Thanks.

[–]needalife94 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're welcome.

[–]psychosythe 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not anymore than every man is a misogynistic Andrew Tate disciple.

Always remember that people who do a lot of posting and commenting on reddit are disproportionately lacking in hobbies and social connections regardless of what you see in screenshotted tweets. Therefore you are very unlikely to meet these people in real life because they're too busy posting on reddit about how outside is dangerous and everyone hates them.

[–]Itchingforadollar 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Never have met one

[–]jessi387 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I’ve met some very lovely women to be around who have made me a lot happier in life. If you find yourself surrounded by toxic people, take time to reflect on what you may be putting out around you that is attracting them.

[–]GroundbreakingAnt322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

True. That's definitely there. I ll have to work on this.

[–]Vedicstudent108 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I was just reading that , If you have to do business with toxic people, treat it like your are going to the toilet , Do your business and then get the hell out !

Hanging around toxic ppl can mess up your progress in life.

[–]KingBacon42069 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If I may give my two cents for this. I really try to avoid generalisation of things, sure sometimes do but it's a behaviour I'm still working on.

When it comes to feminism or any social movement, such, the MalesRightsMovement, Feminism or any other communities, you're always gonna have people who are toxic, that's just how it is. The issue is, these toxic ones have the loudest voice and hence paint everyone else in a bad picture.

Since the topic is feminism, I cannot say how much online media has fucked it up for me. I used to watch these redpill videos and see the behaviour of "feminists" that are so toxic and I used to think, so that's what it is and my behaviour to woman as a result was completely fucked. Till one day, I met a girl, she's still one of my closest mates. She's the textbook definition of feminism, she wants to empower women and also understand and help mens problems as well.

I don't think this was well versed per say. But TLDR: There's toxic people everywhere in any community, but there's always good people.

[–]BonsaiSoul 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's in the same realm as any other kind of twitter/tumblr politics, it's traumagenic and very rare among people who have lives outside the internet; it will be hyperconcentrated in online spaces at a rate directly correlated with the relevance of the space you're in to mental health and inversely related to age and success.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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