I am leaving my immediate family because I fuck up too much

a-man-from-earth · 2021-08-13T21:02:58+00:00

Do you really think they would prefer this? Don't be too harsh on yourself.

happygloaming · 2021-08-14T04:32:21+00:00

I'll echo the other comment that questioned your age. I remember being a colossal fuck up when I was young, not being able to look my family in the eye and deciding to wander off into the wilderness and never return. I've had 2 very happy decades since then.

My advice is to do what is hardest. Look your family, yourself and your problems squarely, and take it on. I'll let you in on a little secret, the people who make it are the people who have people that don't give up on them. It doesn't sound like they've given up on you and you should respect that. You need to take specific practical steps to seek the help you need to address whatever your problems are, and I guarantee mine would stack up against yours. Do this and you'll live to stuff up another day, slowly gain control over yourself and then perhaps be of use to others.

The hardest thing I've ever had to do is learn to live in my own skin, jesus I have some scars but I'm now a happy person and you can be too. Also, often speaking out loud what your problems are can be very hilarious and a great healing opportunity and teachable moment.

ComradeAnthony · 2021-08-14T03:56:21+00:00

First of all, how old are you?

Ok-Kaleidoscope1778 · 2021-08-14T10:47:23+00:00

Please dm me. I’m now 26 but i empathize with the feelings of things you’re going to, and I’d love to talk to you maybe my situation and what i went thru and how i came out of it could give insight into how to help yourself. But dude, been homeless, you don’t want that. I hustled my way out and now i have a 3 bedroom 2 bath house with a front and back yard! (I’m from the hood where we wake up to sirens and death constantly and every house is connected to one another! This is huge to me coming from being homeless! While my woman was pregnant with our first! No job no nothing) sometimes it’s the path we have to take that leads to situations like these. You can and you will get through this man you’re not alone. I’m still fucking up to this day! 😂 you live and learn

heartnotbrain · 2021-08-14T11:29:09+00:00

Find a meditation class, it's usually free. Instructors will help you.

I've been there and relapse once in a while. We fuck up we are humans. Meditation helps me find peace with my mistakes.

Seems like you are stuck in your past brother. You need to let go off your mistakes. Shame and guilt is holding you in a loop.

Forgive and accept, much love ❤️

Title	I am leaving my immediate family because I fuck up too much
Author	racingmindsrrrrrr
Upvotes	15
Comments	10
Date	August 13, 2021 8:54 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	/r/MenSupportMen
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