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I'm not sure if I made the right choice or not

February 2, 2023

If you saw the mid-week check in, I think you may already know the details of my situation. Just as a reminder, I was supposed to go to a new urologist today (5th one). But the thing is that yesterday I was suffering from fever chills, watery eyes, blocked sinuses (almost to the point of it being hard to breathe sometimes) and a complete lack of energy. It was like that for at least several hours but I was pretty sick all day and it was hard to do anything, even though I still had to take the garbage out. Last night, I was not able to get any rest at all. Maybe like 2 hours. And the trip to get to this urologist is at least an hour and a half long trip to get there so if I went today, I would be gone all day and I would be really tired. And if I got overwhelmed and especially if I got bad news, I would come home feeling really terrible and I would be so out of it that I wouldn't be able to get done the other things that I really have to do (OPM paperwork, tax paperwork, stuff involving my bank, other doctors). I decided to reschedule but I already kinda hate myself for it because.....however far off the appointment is now, the longer I'm gonna be stuck in pain. I'm going to my PCP next week for chest pains and stuff but he may or may not be that much help, idk. This is all so overwhelming......

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[–]Cyb3rd31ic_Citiz3n 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Hate to say it but there is always someone who does... You should have gone to the appointment, brother. But hey-ho... You've got your new appointment time now and that's something positive. Just make sure you go to this. You shouldn't postpone this much more, your health needs taking care of. You deserve to have good health. Xx

[–]BlackoutWalksAlone[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I didn't get my new appointment time until now. It's on the 16th which is like a day before my new therapist appointment.

[–]Cyb3rd31ic_Citiz3n 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's good then! Can tackle your physical and mental health back to back.

[–]veLiyoor_paappaan 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This too shall pass, my man; please try and be strong.

Yes, I realise it is easy for me to say; unfortunately I am not where you are. If I were, I would probably drop in and hang out with you :)

Cheers and good luck :)

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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