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"It's not r*pe if there's no penetration."

August 23, 2022
40 upvotes

EDIT: Thank you everyone for supporting me. I posted this in several subreddits and am inspired to create a private subreddit as a safe space for victims and survivors with more privacy and moderation than is afforded elsewhere:

r/SafeSurvivors

https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=/r/SafeSurvivors

I'll be personally screening out each request.

ORIGINAL: I have been hearing this all of my life. Society is damn scary.

It's wild how much individuals, non-profit organizations, news media, universities, and so many other facets of society perpetuate this.

The gaslighting is deafening. Sometimes I feel like I'm one of the few who are anti-r•pe. If not, I wish people would speak out against it on social media. I wish people would speak out against it on campaigns created and funded by non-profits, news outlets, and universities. This is one of many, many propaganda that results in the erasure of me, and all other victims and survivors.

Fuck r•pe culture.

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Title "It's not r*pe if there's no penetration."
Author DeliciousMadame84
Upvotes 40
Comments 7
Date August 23, 2022 12:47 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/MenSupportMen
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MenSupportMen/its-not-rpe-if-theres-no-penetration.1128379
https://theredarchive.com/post/1128379
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/mensupportmen/comments/wvafzs/its_not_rpe_if_theres_no_penetration/
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[–]Fast-Mongoose-4989 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm sorry you went through that.

[–]DeliciousMadame84[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm feeling better after a good cry.

I'm not surprised, just wish people were better.

I know what to do, but I'm impatient. It'll take decades, but it'll be so damn worth it at the end.

[–]keker0t 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It's good to see some people are courageous enough to take further steps than just moving on, great.

[–]DeliciousMadame84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you. I will be slowly, but surely, working on this in my free time every month. This won't be my focal point until after I obtain my reparations as a victim.

[–]a-man-from-earth 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is one of the societal issues we are fighting over at /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates. Anyone is welcome to join us there.

[–]SonicSuperSam 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

here in england and wales it’s law that the rapists penis must penetrate meaning it’s impossible for most women to be rapists

[–]Training-Banana705 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sir, I apologise for being late to the party,

To the title, can I just say with highest level of respect "BS"

As a survivor (strong word, should have watered it down) myself, I am of the believe that any unwanted and or unconsented contact of ones genitals in anyway is R*pe.

No one would be shamed or left to feel bad if they are the victim, and I don't like saying victim, while that fits, after the fact, I don't want to make anyone feel like they have no power or control, Survivor also carries some connotation that I'm not conformable using but here we are, the English language is not a easy one to master and I've been using it for over 30 years.

I might be breaking a rule with this but here goes, It's just awful when something happens without consent or forcefully, I know I've been there, it took me years to open about it, and I still recall it clear as day. But that isn't me, that happened to me, It shaped me, but I didn't let it do more damage once I opened about it.

I want to offer love to all my fellow Men, Bro's, Homies we go through so crap and in a lot of cases, we are just expected to take it on the chin and carry on, But we don't have to, We can seek support, There's a group here, and I want to believe there's local groups that can help too...

I think I've spammed the comments enough. I'm sorry about any shittyness you've had to date friend, we aren't our shittyness we are our own man, And we make our lives what they are. if we trip, We can get up and continue, don't have be right away, take your time, But know, there's help standing by to raise you to feet again once your ready.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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