I just have quick question I thought and I found this subreddit

So basically the issue is men touching men.

I guess a better question is how would you react to a stranger at a party like placing their hand on your "waist".

I don't really go out except this has happened to me more at private parties. Only like a handful of times, it's usually one of the more awkard or like out of place guys that end up doing this I feel. I kind of just end up ignoring it since can easily get out of hand. I'm not particulary manly kind of guy yet I've been told I'm strong, so I wouldn't want to hurt someone especially if they've been drinking.

It's just happened one too many times and I want to have a response ready to go when I encounter it again.

I can understand that it's maybe acceptable in some circumstances like for example in basketball they slap themselves OK fine. That's one of reasons that I don't want to go with violence since perhaps in their mind it happens regularly and or maybe it even happens to them regularly. The other thing is that if I react aggressively or dramatically, even if I can justify it, I feel like thats a way a female reacts you know what I mean. I feel like I don't want to react like a female, well because I'm a male.

Reacting like a female would like advertise to other men that men touch me you know, like I would like to avoid that. I'm trying to design my response to where they lose and would have be been better off not doing it at all.

Anyway I would want to see if other have had a similar experience and possible what you would do if that were to happen to you or say even like a brother of yours something like that.