Agreed. Half the comments in that thread are responding to "if the genders were reversed..." by pointing out that it's staged. That...makes it worse.
An individual woman hitting an individual man speaks to one person who is fucked up. But this being staged means that a committee of people sat there and thought up this interaction and thought it would be seen as funny, not abusive.
I agree that you shouldn't attack someone because they rejected your sexual advances but I reckon he was cheatin bruh. Even if it was staged, it was still staged to seem like he was cheatin
As soon as the attention of a camera is turned on him he immediately removes his arm from the girl and his body language shifts in a way that tries to distance himself from the girl. He looks down, avoids any eye contact and makes everything try and look as casual and non romantic as possible. I would assume that in that situation of a guy felt uncomfortable with kissing her on TV he would at least turn and say something to her so she understands. Idk, I wasn't there but it does look a lil bit suspicious
His body language and lack of communication with his partner as soon as the cameras get turned on him. I could be completely wrong but I would assume that with that reaction he's cheating. And I would assume that she would be cheating if roles were reversed. Now why was it your reaction to label me off as sexist when I politely stated my point of view of the situation and gave reasoning for it in another comment? I never once agreed or condoned with the behavior of the woman (which was atrocious, might I add) I know this is a sub about gender and men's rights but damn, I can't have my assumptions about anything without being attacked for it
Well thank you for the time to type all of that out. I genuinely appreciate your perspective.
Why does your initial reaction and conclusion not consider; maybe he has social anxiety? Maybe he is uncomfortable with public displays of affection? Maybe they’re in a rough patch relationship wise and whilst he is being close to her in the parameters of his bodily autonomy and comfort he wasn’t comfortable with more intimate actions?
This is all a very good point and I should probably think more about other factors before posting stuff. I still don't think that my 'knee jerk reaction' would be any different if roles were reversed, so I definitely need to work on concidering what may be going on inside someone's head before posting comments. Mental health in general is not a strong point for me to think about, so I will work on that in future.
Again thank you for actually taking the time to patiently explain your opinion. Sorry if I sounded snappy at any point. I hope to engage in some future discussion with you in this sub because this was actually one of the first incredibly positive and thought provoking encounters I've had here so far.
I think ppl downvoted u cuz it sounded like you were giving her an excuse for her behaviour.
Yeah, I kinda got that impression once I made it to -10 downvotes. I definitely did not want to give an excuse for her behavior because it's such a bad example for anyone on what to do in that situation. Congrats on making it down this far and thanks for taking the time to read out everything :)
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Agreed. Half the comments in that thread are responding to "if the genders were reversed..." by pointing out that it's staged. That...makes it worse.
An individual woman hitting an individual man speaks to one person who is fucked up. But this being staged means that a committee of people sat there and thought up this interaction and thought it would be seen as funny, not abusive.
It being staged makes it worse.
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I agree that you shouldn't attack someone because they rejected your sexual advances but I reckon he was cheatin bruh. Even if it was staged, it was still staged to seem like he was cheatin
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Cheating or not, you shouldn’t be beaten for it lol
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As soon as the attention of a camera is turned on him he immediately removes his arm from the girl and his body language shifts in a way that tries to distance himself from the girl. He looks down, avoids any eye contact and makes everything try and look as casual and non romantic as possible. I would assume that in that situation of a guy felt uncomfortable with kissing her on TV he would at least turn and say something to her so she understands. Idk, I wasn't there but it does look a lil bit suspicious
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Pls explain how. I want to improve myself and I can't quite seem to understand where I have gone wrong.
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His body language and lack of communication with his partner as soon as the cameras get turned on him. I could be completely wrong but I would assume that with that reaction he's cheating. And I would assume that she would be cheating if roles were reversed. Now why was it your reaction to label me off as sexist when I politely stated my point of view of the situation and gave reasoning for it in another comment? I never once agreed or condoned with the behavior of the woman (which was atrocious, might I add) I know this is a sub about gender and men's rights but damn, I can't have my assumptions about anything without being attacked for it
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Well thank you for the time to type all of that out. I genuinely appreciate your perspective.
This is all a very good point and I should probably think more about other factors before posting stuff. I still don't think that my 'knee jerk reaction' would be any different if roles were reversed, so I definitely need to work on concidering what may be going on inside someone's head before posting comments. Mental health in general is not a strong point for me to think about, so I will work on that in future.
Again thank you for actually taking the time to patiently explain your opinion. Sorry if I sounded snappy at any point. I hope to engage in some future discussion with you in this sub because this was actually one of the first incredibly positive and thought provoking encounters I've had here so far.
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Yeah, I kinda got that impression once I made it to -10 downvotes. I definitely did not want to give an excuse for her behavior because it's such a bad example for anyone on what to do in that situation. Congrats on making it down this far and thanks for taking the time to read out everything :)
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