Crazy girl at /r/Relationship_advice. Dares to post "how do i make him grow up and accept his responsibilitities?" after hiding the she stopped taking her birth control pill.

Bobsutan · 2011-02-07T14:21:18+00:00

I've seen this shit happen many times in real life, so no reason for it to be a troll.

EvilPundit · 2011-02-07T14:11:44+00:00

Troll or not, incidents like this do happen in real life. The responses of the commenters are encouraging.

cynwrig · 2011-02-07T16:21:19+00:00

What we need is a at-home test for guys to administer. Take a sample of her fluids, wait 15 minutes and check the window....

A horizontal line means she's crazy.
A vertical line means she stopped taking her birth control pill.
A plus means... you should pull out - of the relationship.

MDKAOD · 2011-02-07T21:23:34+00:00

Can we find her SO and get him these links to protect himself legally? She knowingly deceived to trap him.

Fatmaninalilcoat · 2011-02-07T21:12:36+00:00

I wonder if there has ever been a case to sue for abortion or adoption. The most f'd up thing about it is if he is not the father(Just saying) yet she put's him down on the birth certificate in most states that gives him legal obligation for child support. So if he could sue for child support or separation of responsibility for the fact he did not want kid's. I know it sounds f'd up but this is entrapment I think what was really happening is he was getting ready to bone out so she got knocked up to force his hand. I have 2 of my own so do not take this as a dick head man response I love my daughters to death but his is just a messed up situation for the dude.

Chevellephreak · 2011-02-07T19:14:31+00:00

I'm a female, and my jaw is on the fucking floor. She sounds way too fucking stupid to be a real person, are you men here being trolled?

Devi_D · 2011-02-07T20:26:52+00:00

This is why this: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/3543478/ns/health-sexual_health/ needs to happen sooner.

Aavagadrro · 2011-02-07T14:19:26+00:00

Good to see Facko getting downvoted so much. All of their comments are pretty much saying the man has some fault in this.

Down the road this guy is going to be slapped with child support.

Cast_Iron_Skillet · 2011-02-07T22:55:23+00:00

I really hope this guy can find some legal help, and that he is wise enough to hop on Reddit, verify that she has cookies for this account, present her post to the judge, and be absolved of any child-support payments should he choose to leave this girl.

I hope it so hard.

radioactive21 · 2011-02-07T22:04:47+00:00

As many people have said already, troll or not, I've heard it a few times in real life that makes me believe this is not a troll.

I've had someone who straight up said, she thought it was time to have a baby. The boyfriend did not and had no idea she was pregnant until a few months later, when she broke the news. He ended the relationship, and now pays child support, which is just wrong.

There is so many wrong that I dont know where to begin. The fact that the guy has to pay child support for a baby he did not intend to have? Or the fact that his career that he had all planned out is now in question. Yes he can still pursue his career but will child support payments dampen his financials enough to stop it?

The other sad part is a child being born to one parent who is obviously crazy, and one that did not want him/her in the first place. How sad is it to grow up and one day learn that you were conceive base on the worst possible intentions.

Hejic · 2011-02-07T20:22:20+00:00

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AnnArchist · 2011-02-07T16:07:52+00:00

People who are advocating that pulling out isn't effective birth control are wrong. Pull out EVERY FUCKING TIME. Condom or not. Pill or Not.

krsvbg · 2011-02-08T03:14:00+00:00

Clearly trolling. No replies? Oh come on...

Thirsty101 · 2011-02-08T00:05:37+00:00

I was very reassured to see the comments posted on that thread, lots of men and women recognised how wrong her actions were and she was told so and down voted hard.

Its nice to see progress of any sort, considering that always almost the threads in this subreddit are depressing examples of all the troubles the movement and men in general face.

mjfd · 2011-02-08T02:17:56+00:00

Where is the male contraceptive pill!?!? I won't sleep with another women until I get it and am taking it daily.

oasisisthewin · 2011-02-08T02:33:04+00:00

This is how Jesus wanted it to happen clearly...

2011-02-08T04:41:05+00:00

all this is solved with a simple accidental push down the stairs

2011-02-07T19:34:54+00:00

woman + crazy ass shit = par for the course

cuberail · 2011-02-07T18:43:03+00:00

How's about not trusting anyone that they are doing "their" part and do your own part. You can choose either celibacy or condoms. But choosing condoms carries a risk. If you choose to take that risk and something happens you have nobody to blame but yourself.

Brotaufstrich · 2011-02-07T22:19:35+00:00

It's pretty clear to me that the OP is a shitty troll, but way to get all hung up on it.

DomesticApe · 2011-02-08T00:30:59+00:00

If she wasn't pressured into fitting into a male's ideal (thin) then she would never have stopped taking the birth control. How can anyone blame this poor girl? I guess the patriarchy takes another victim.

gwynjudd · 2011-02-07T23:55:06+00:00

Yeah, it's probably a troll. Or, it's for real and everyone agrees she's a bitch. If it's the second, then the guy is probably screwed.

viciousdisorder · 2011-02-07T20:45:46+00:00

So, as much as I blame her for putting them both in the situation, what was wrong with him wearing a condom which should prevent STIs and any unexpected pregnancies? Birth control shouldn't always be the responsibility of just one partner - esp. if she's just BSC.

Leprecon · 2011-02-07T13:59:01+00:00

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s0nicfreak · 2011-02-07T18:38:57+00:00

This has got to be a troll, while it does happen, women don't say that shit outloud (/post it on reddit).

enderxeno · 2011-02-07T19:56:43+00:00

this can't be real.

Demonspawn · 2011-02-07T16:25:34+00:00

Not actually a men's rights issue.

Title	Crazy girl at /r/Relationship_advice. Dares to post "how do i make him grow up and accept his responsibilitities?" after hiding the she stopped taking her birth control pill.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	339
Comments	125
Date	February 7, 2011 1:54 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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