How did men’s value come to be only what he can provide for a woman? Was it that women simply wanted sex and forced men to have sex all the time? And that’s why if a man doesn’t want to have sex with everything that walks he isn’t seen as masculine?

I think it’s funny cause this girl I was talking to who was super Christian was completely astounded at the fact that I wanted an emotional connection with my partner before having sex. And she said “don’t let anyone tell you you’re not masculine for that”. Well they didn’t until you did. Thanks though.