I originally posted this to meta, but then I saw no one has posted there in 3 months. If this isn't the right place let me know, but I feel like no one will read it in meta...

When I discovered men's rights it wasn't that hard for me to buy into most of it. Well the parts I didn't already know anyway. I was already aware that the "Gender Wage Gap" was a load of bull and that family courts screw men over from prior experience.

The one thing I could't really buy into fully was that there is a problem with circumcision. I had one, my dad had one, everyone in my family as far as I knew had one, I didn't ever think twice about it.

I've heard my whole life that an uncircumcised penis was "gross". In retrospect I think it was mostly women who have said that. I even thought that myself and was glad to have had one. Honestly I don't think I would change it if I could but I will never know so maybe that is the point.

I've read the arguments against it now and I guess I am still somewhere in the middle. My feelings are evolving on this issue and honestly I am still a bit confused by it.

My wife is pregnant with our 2nd child. I don't yet know the sex and our first was a girl. I am at this moment really split down the middle on this, if it is a boy I honestly don't know what to do.

Part of me doesn't want to hurt my son unnecessarily (if it is a boy). Another part of me thinks well if I don't have it done for him won't he feel odd that he doesn't look like his dad or most of the other boys at school? Will girls ridicule him for being uncut? As someone who was really unpopular in school, I don't want him to have to go through what I did.

I'll tell you a year ago I wouldn't have even thought twice about it, I would have had it done. Now I don't know... it really isn't as simple as some people make it out to be.