Vasectomy=She can fuck someone else and blame the kid on you anyway.
True, but you can prove in court that there's no way you could be the father, and courts have upheld the impossibility of your fatherhood.
Sitting around pretending to be the father for 5 years, then saying, "hey wait, DNA says this isn't mine" is not going to be successful in court however.
if having children in the future is important to them that could really fuck up an otherwise good relationship and we both have to start again.
I'm just curious as to why it would fuck it up? I would think taking control over reproduction would be a good thing. If the subject of children came up, it would seem to be a simple matter of, "Oh I banked some sperm, lets go see a fertilization specialist" or a worse case scenario of "Let me go see my urologist about a vasectomy reversal or something to that effect."
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Bank sperm, get a vasectomy, exercise ultimate control over your reproduction, or else someone else will for you.
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True, but you can prove in court that there's no way you could be the father, and courts have upheld the impossibility of your fatherhood.
Sitting around pretending to be the father for 5 years, then saying, "hey wait, DNA says this isn't mine" is not going to be successful in court however.
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I had one, and no one knows. It's none of their business. If the time comes that I wanted to have kids with someone I'd deal with it then.
I don't want to lie to any women, but at the same time, I'm not going to allow them to exploit any situations.
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I'm just curious as to why it would fuck it up? I would think taking control over reproduction would be a good thing. If the subject of children came up, it would seem to be a simple matter of, "Oh I banked some sperm, lets go see a fertilization specialist" or a worse case scenario of "Let me go see my urologist about a vasectomy reversal or something to that effect."
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