These were the comments that r/feminisms deleted, you can see that these comments were very respectful, contained no insults or foul language, they were simply deleted because the moderators of r/feminisms do not want to hear opposing viewpoints:

First comment, deleted:

"These things in the article are trivial. If feminists think these are the things that men are angry about, they are wrong. These are trivialities. These expectations like having a stiff lip, being ready to fight to defend yourself, being expected to always want sex, fear of being perceived as gay, these are not hard expectations to navigate around as a man in today's society. If this was all that men faced, it would be nothing.

The real problems that men are angry about, men in the men's movement, are things like:

Men are the majority of homicide and suicide victims. If you're a man, you're more likely than a woman to be the victim of a violent crime. Rape is the only violent crime that affects more women than men (although if you include the number of men who are raped in prison, men are as likely as women to be raped).

93% of prisoners in the U.S. are men. The U.S. has the highest incarceration rate in the world. Men are statistically far more likely than women to be incarcerated. Men are also given harsher sentences than women for the same crimes. In general, men are more likely to be victims of the criminal justice system.

At least 30% of domestic violence victims are men. But domestic violence against men is ignored. Men are treated like losers if they seek help for being abused by their wife or girlfriend. In fact, often there ISN'T any help available like shelters or phone numbers to call to get help for abused men like there are for abused women.

In marriages, 66% to 75% of all divorces are filed by the wife. Given that about 50% or more of all marriages end in divorce, statistically if you're a man and you get married, you are going to be divorced by your wife. No fault divorce means she can divorce you at any time for any reason without your consent.

Following divorce, the wife gets custody of the children 80% of the time. Statistically, the the vast majority of men lose custody of their kids following divorce and have to jump through hoops to be able to continue to see them. Their former wives often act as gatekeepers, keeping them away from their kids, often even moving to other states to prevent them contact between the father and his kids.

As serious as the actual crime of rape is, men are often the victims of false rape accusations. These accusations can destroy a man's reputation and traumatize him almost as much as women are traumatized by actual incidences of rape. Women are almost never the victim of a false rape or false sexual assault claim. From the man's perspective, any sexual encounter with a woman is a possible set up for a false rape claim against him that could destroy his life and reputation.

Male genital mutilation (downplayed in common parlance as "circumcision") is downplayed, while female genital mutilation is abhorred.

These are the things that actually anger and worry men's activists. These are the real issues that affect men in society. The things mentioned in the article are just social expectations that are fairly easy to navigate and deal with, especially in today's society with looser gender roles and gendered expectations for men. These things that I mentioned, on the other hand, are not easy to deal with. Things like how men are treated in divorce outcomes, family court, the criminal justice system, getting society to take domestic violence against men seriously (or even ACKNOWLEDGE THAT IT EXISTS), and getting rid of the double-standard about male genital mutilation vs. female genital mutilation are serious problems that go way beyond mere societal expectations about gendered male behavior."

Second comment, deleted:

"With all due respect, your comment was an entire dismissal of my comment and my legitimate concerns about men's issues. You lay claim to my supposed dismissal of women's issues, when in fact my comment had ZERO dismissal of women's issues, it wasn't even about women's issues. The only time that I mentioned women's issues was when I mentioned rape, and I was very clear to say that rape is a serious crime. You were the one who dismissed my concerns.

Your claim that women's issues are a matter of life and death, as if men's issues are not, is a dismissal as well. Read my comment again. Men's issues ARE a matter of life and death as well. More men than women are victims of violent crimes, all violent crimes except rape outside of prison. The fact that 93% of prisoners are men is also a matter of life and death for men, because being sent to prison is a very dangerous place, a place where you can lose your life any day if you cross the wrong person. In addition, the dismissal of male genital mutilation as being an irrelevant issue or a trivial issue costs lives - over 100 male infants in the United States DIE, yes that's right DIE from circumcision. Over 100 every year.

Your whole comment and the tenor of what you said is a dismissal of my legitimate concerns. I was not trying to one-up anyone. I was pointing out that the article in question poses these issues that supposedly affect men, but I was pointing out that there are far more serious issues that affect men. These expectations about men's behavior are trivial compared to the real issues affecting men. That was not my trying to one-up women's issues, that was me trying to show anyone who wants to listen that there are bigger issues affecting men. Because I personally was offended by the article, because it lays out a supposed case for sexism against men but doesn't actually show the real discrimination against men and the things that men's activists are actually concerned about."

Third comment, deleted:

"People often take the most extreme case of female genital mutilation and compare that to male genital mutilation and assume that when anyone invokes the comparison, that the person must be comparing the complete removal of a female infant's labia and clitoris with a typical male circumcision. That's an assumption that is in the mind of the beholder. As far as I am concerned, when I talk about female genital mutilation, I'm talking about any kind of cutting into the infant female genitalia for cosmetic purposes, ANY kind of cutting. That's what I'm comparing to male genital mutilation.

Think about it this way. There would be outrage if hospitals in America routinely made any kind of cuts into female infants' genitalia. Any kind of cuts. Even a one millimeter cut into a female labia would cause extreme outrage by the public. This simply would not be tolerated on any level. And yet, male infants routinely have 40% of the skin of their penises removed in American hospitals and this is considered normal. Don't compare the most extreme example of female genital mutilation with male circumcision. Compare what the reaction would be if ANY kind of cutting was done to female infants' genitalia and compare that to the practice of routine male circumcision. That is where the double-standard lies. There is no tolerance for any kind of cutting to female infant genitalia, but there is widespread tolerance and dismissal of the effect of cutting off 40% of the skin of all male infant penises."

I only made four comments to that reddit, and three of them were deleted. I personally am able to view the comments myself when I am logged in, because they are my comments, but when logged out, [deleted] appears to everyone viewing the thread. One of the comments has 3 points, one has zero points, and one has one point. So these comments were not removed because of downvotes, they were removed ONLY because the moderators of that reddit disagreed with what I said.

Out of the four comments that I made there, they removed my best three, the ones where I made the most salient points, and kept the one that was the shortest and weakest argument of mine.

Let this be a lesson to anyone whining about getting downvoted on r/mensrights for pushing feminist dogma here. Your comments are not getting fucking DELETED like mine were when I posted a few comments at r/feminisms. At worst, your comments here are just getting downvoted, but are still visible. My comments there were completely removed and unable to be viewed by anyone else.

Don't go to r/feminisms, they do not want honest debate and will delete your comments if what you say is too real for them.