I mean, I personally agree. I don't want to see a woman outside in just her underwear so it counts for men walking around in boxers. It's made out of completely different material that's not meant for outdoor wear. Especially boxers with that hole on the front that can accidentally expose you. Or the tight ones that expose the shape of your junk. I don't need to see that silhouette same way I don't want to see camel toe vagina or nipples sticking out through woman's shirt. It's not appropriate look for the public.
It can also be a completely unsettling view if the person doing it is old and just horrible to look at without proper clothes on. You're not gonna view them sexually, you're just gonna be disgusted.
Nothing to do with gender or sexuality.
If the opinion is consistent the complaint is valid.
Update: Since my original arguments aren't enough and come off as petty or anti-freedom I'll update this with a more serious approach. I'll even use a woman as example to prove this isn't about gender or double standard.
Another glaring problem with this "freedom" of wearing whatever you want is STDs.
Lets say a woman wears underwear that barely covers her up. Or even normal underwear, it literally doesn't matter in this case. Underwear requires pants or a dress for a good reason. Women have discharge. That discharge can sometimes be in big quantity and pass through underwear which then pants protect from going on surfaces they sit on or generally come in contact with. It's completely normal and natural, but think about it in this situation...
If the surface the woman sat on came in any contact with her discharge, which is high probability without pants, imagine you, your partner or your child unknowingly touch that surface... And then scratch your forehead or touch the food you're eating... Or you have a cut on your finger for the disease to freely enter your organism.
Clearly, I'm exaggerating but it's disgusting nonetheless.
It's not fucking about girls, it's about goddamn common decency for fucks sake. Nobody, including but not limited to girls wants to see the inevitable dick slip that comes from wearing thin ass boxers or the outline of your bulge from wearing boxer briefs. Get over yourselves
I absolutely can expect not to get shamed for what I post on the intended subreddit for that kind of thing. You literally went looking through my history for something to shame me and I refuse to be ashamed and blackmailed by my body and my sexual expression. I didn't wear that in public, nor did I staple that picture on a street pole, because that would be impolite to the extreme and would be a non-consensual experience for whoever viewed it.
The standards are different in public and the fact of the matter is that the continued functioning of society depends on the politeness and decency of people. If you can't see that it's basic common courtesy to your fellow human beings not to subject them to a half naked body then I'm afraid you're lost. To be absolutely crystal clear, I'm not saying that people are not allowed to wear whatever they want. I am saying that there are venues and places where the common decency and politeness should override personal preferences for the simple reason of being a nice person to the people around you.
Wouldn't you rather be nice to people rather than putting them in a position where they have to constantly avoid looking at you? In your own words, where they have to be taught not to stare?
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I mean, I personally agree. I don't want to see a woman outside in just her underwear so it counts for men walking around in boxers. It's made out of completely different material that's not meant for outdoor wear. Especially boxers with that hole on the front that can accidentally expose you. Or the tight ones that expose the shape of your junk. I don't need to see that silhouette same way I don't want to see camel toe vagina or nipples sticking out through woman's shirt. It's not appropriate look for the public.
It can also be a completely unsettling view if the person doing it is old and just horrible to look at without proper clothes on. You're not gonna view them sexually, you're just gonna be disgusted.
Nothing to do with gender or sexuality.
If the opinion is consistent the complaint is valid.
Update: Since my original arguments aren't enough and come off as petty or anti-freedom I'll update this with a more serious approach. I'll even use a woman as example to prove this isn't about gender or double standard.
Another glaring problem with this "freedom" of wearing whatever you want is STDs.
Lets say a woman wears underwear that barely covers her up. Or even normal underwear, it literally doesn't matter in this case. Underwear requires pants or a dress for a good reason. Women have discharge. That discharge can sometimes be in big quantity and pass through underwear which then pants protect from going on surfaces they sit on or generally come in contact with. It's completely normal and natural, but think about it in this situation...
If the surface the woman sat on came in any contact with her discharge, which is high probability without pants, imagine you, your partner or your child unknowingly touch that surface... And then scratch your forehead or touch the food you're eating... Or you have a cut on your finger for the disease to freely enter your organism.
Clearly, I'm exaggerating but it's disgusting nonetheless.
I think I said enough.
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Well then go watch porn. These things are no place for public. Sorry.
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Its possible to have a consistently stupid opinion
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If you had double standards you'd be a jerk to half as many people, who made you the fashion police
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It's not fucking about girls, it's about goddamn common decency for fucks sake. Nobody, including but not limited to girls wants to see the inevitable dick slip that comes from wearing thin ass boxers or the outline of your bulge from wearing boxer briefs. Get over yourselves
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Yeah bud, I posted that in the intended forum, not on the street. And I own it. Are you trying to shame me based on what I wear in private?
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I absolutely can expect not to get shamed for what I post on the intended subreddit for that kind of thing. You literally went looking through my history for something to shame me and I refuse to be ashamed and blackmailed by my body and my sexual expression. I didn't wear that in public, nor did I staple that picture on a street pole, because that would be impolite to the extreme and would be a non-consensual experience for whoever viewed it.
The standards are different in public and the fact of the matter is that the continued functioning of society depends on the politeness and decency of people. If you can't see that it's basic common courtesy to your fellow human beings not to subject them to a half naked body then I'm afraid you're lost. To be absolutely crystal clear, I'm not saying that people are not allowed to wear whatever they want. I am saying that there are venues and places where the common decency and politeness should override personal preferences for the simple reason of being a nice person to the people around you.
Wouldn't you rather be nice to people rather than putting them in a position where they have to constantly avoid looking at you? In your own words, where they have to be taught not to stare?
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Honestly she's right. Who the heck wears just boxers outside? That's wack.
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