Hey guys 24-year-old man here,

I want to learn how to argue with staunch feminists because the women in my family including my sisters and cousins are that. I could never stand to be around them growing up because they have such strong beliefs which they try to impose on me and if I don't agree with them they say they're right I'm wrong. I have always been someone who sees both sides of the story, I try to look for nuance in discussions and I see the world for what it is: Grey. i of course acknowledge a lot of the troubles women go through. But what irritates me beyond belief is the condescending tone and virtue signaling. Like there's no room for reasonable debate because it devolves into arguments and they're always emotionally invested unlike me who can separate emotion from what I'm arguing about. i can't stand people who can't agree to disagree and resort to maligning my political views. I'd consider myself egalitarian. My sister browses subs like Ask women and when i point out some of the double standards she does she either ignores it or trivializes it. So I want to read and become so well informed in argument/ debate that I can shut them up/ put them in their place. So please don't give me any of those "walks away/ don't engage", if they want a fight i'll give them a fight. I have been going through this phase of hit back as hard as you can, where i give the most trouble to anyone who thinks they can mess with me because I'm a pushover. It works because making it troublesome and emotionally draining for them to argue is not something anyone enjoys. So i need a lot of counter material to feminism with good sources, please.