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[–]tenchineuro 27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Is this the basis for The Duluth Model?
[–]Imnotmrabut[S] 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
The Duluth Model has no basis other than fantasy.
[–]tenchineuro 21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You're forgetting misandry.
[–]Imnotmrabut[S] 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I view Misandry as a fantastical beast. It is invisible to most and even J K Rowling can't see it as yet. Maybe in her next moneymaker of fantastical beasts she can introduce a cameo of Valerie Solanas.
[–]tenchineuro 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Reminds me, I need to finish that movie.
Maybe mix in some Lovecraft to make it more, err, interesting?
[–]The_Best_01 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Played by Lena Dunham, of course.
[–]Singulaire 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Not exactly- the basis for the Duluth Model is that men abuse women as a way to assert their male gender role of dominance, power and control. Women, of course, are almost never abusive, because patriarchy teaches them to be submissive and demure.
No, really, that's what the Duluth Model (and domestic violence policy in dozens of developed countries) is based on.
[–]FunctioningFully 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The idea is that women cannot be abusive and that abuse is inherently a male trait.
[–]jfartster 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So when women do physically abuse someone, it's not really abuse (because patriarchy), it's......? Or that means they're not really women?
Wondering what the get-out clause is there.... it's always some bullshit
[–]FunctioningFully 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
When women (which obviously almost never happens, thus why we totally shouldn't have men's DV Shelters) abuse it's clearly 'because they're victims' the same excuse used to get out of murdering your husband 'he abused me' usually accepted on emotional argument alone.
The Duluth model teaches police to arrest the man when he is the only one injured because it assumes that he is the batterer and that the woman is just lashing out. If you think there's some difference between misandry and the DM, please spell it out.
[–]5th_Law_of_Robotics 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Essentially yes.
[–]The_Best_01 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (59 children) | Copy Link
What a cunt. And they're anti-trans too, which is nice.
[–]Singulaire 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The TERF hatred for transsexuals is just an extension of their hatred for men. It should surprise anyone that hatred on the basis of gender leads one to reject gender identification that gets in the way of said hatred.
[–]The_Best_01 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right.
[–]Raphe9000 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What do you mean? I think they just complimented me in their twisted world by calling me a transwoman!/s
[–]The_Best_01 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe in their mind it means we're honorary women? lol
[–]Samisseyth 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Well, trans people have a mental illness, so that’s kind of like a cherry on top of a shit sundae imo.
[–]The_Best_01 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I guess gay people have a mental illness too, huh?
[–]Samisseyth 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
No, but gender dysphoria is what trans people have. Which is a mental illness. Being attracted to the same sex has no weight in mental illness because it’s personal preference. (Kind of like me liking beer and you disliking beer) But people with the desire to be the opposite sex actually have different chemical outputs/makeups than normal people.
Transgender people have a mental illness. Dissociative identity disorder is pretty serious these days. Especially since people are treating trans people like they’re not mentally ill. It’s sad, really.
[–]The_Best_01 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
But people with the desire
It's not a "desire".
actually have different chemical outputs/makeups
Yeah, it's called having a brain structure closer to that of the opposite sex. Calling it a mental illness instead of acknowledging their body doesn't fit their brain is simplifying it greatly.
[–]Samisseyth 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Desire: a strong feeling of wanting to have something or wishing for something to happen. You're saying the don't want to be the opposite sex?
The gender you're born with is the gender you will die with. No matter if you cut your dick off or if you take hormone/testosterone supplements. That's pretty sad to me. People aiming for something they can never achieve. Depression isn't so high in trans people because they don't get called "he or she" it's because deep down they know they'll never be the opposite gender. I
I feel like you're actually over simplifying it myself. Schizophrenic people also have a different brain makeup. I guess we should tap dance around them and act like they don't have a problem too. Even if people were to call trans people what they wish to be called, their suicide rates and depression would barely, if at all, be changed. It'd be better to figure out how to treat this type of mental illness then pretend that they're little princes' and princess' in a game of make believe.
Great book on GID
They don't want to be the opposite sex, you idiot. They brain is literally wired in a similar way to that of the opposite sex, that's why their body feels "wrong" to them.
Their depression is probably due to the social isolation they feel when society misunderstands their condition (like you're doing now). If there wasn't such a stigma against them, they probably wouldn't have such high rates of depression/suicide. But by all means, keep comparing them to schizophrenic people since you know, they're so crazy. FYI, gay people used to be considered to have a mental illness too, just saying.
Anyway, I don't even care that much about this topic, so I don't know why I'm still talking about this. Agree to disagree, I guess. See ya.
[–]PM_ME_UR_PC_SPECS -3 points-2 points-1 points 5 years ago (48 children) | Copy Link
Let us remove this log from our eye first. This sub has a fair share of transphobes (over 80)
[–]The_Best_01 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (46 children) | Copy Link
How do you know, have you been keeping count?
[–]PM_ME_UR_PC_SPECS 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (45 children) | Copy Link
Would me showing you a transphobic comment that got 86 upvotes in 5 hours suffice?
[–]The_Best_01 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (41 children) | Copy Link
I guess, go on then.
[–]PM_ME_UR_PC_SPECS 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (40 children) | Copy Link
https://www.reddit.com/r/MRAsAgainstMRAs/comments/9kacrl/user_udam92_calls_transgender_woman_a_dude_gets/
[–]Imnotmrabut[S] 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
MRAs Againt MRAs?
Please don't tell me someone has dug that rabbit hole.....
[–]PM_ME_UR_PC_SPECS 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm sorry, but is the name really important ?
[–]Imnotmrabut[S] 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It is if you are cannibalistic.
[–]The_Best_01 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (27 children) | Copy Link
Maybe they meant she used to be one? But yeah, it's a little concerning. I wouldn't say all the people who upvoted are necessarily transphobes though.
[–]Burntskullcandy 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Riley isn't really well liked by a lot of people so, it possibly just that.
[–]FunctioningFully 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Or it's because Riley is a man and the person is simply using science as it is applied.
Riley Dennis is a man, will always be a man, and their DNA will always be the same.
A man without a penis is a man, a man with low testosterone is a man.
I'm sorry but you can't "transition" from Male to Female it's a scientific impossibility with our current technology.
[–]Burntskullcandy 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What about someone who is born a woman with XY chromosomes, genetics are a new thing, genitals aren't.
[–]PM_ME_UR_PC_SPECS 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
If you read further down the thread, you can see the whole "birth over sex change" crowd piling in. Very concerning, and only the tip of the iceberg.
[–]The_Best_01 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Either way, it's probably a small minority, and it doesn't mean we can't call out other transphobes when we see them.
[–]FunctioningFully 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Why is DNA transphobic?
Is reality offensive when it doesn't suit your mental illness?
[–]PM_ME_UR_PC_SPECS 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I would say maybe 10-15% of this subreddit's active members are bad actors, at least from what I have personally seen.
[–]FunctioningFully 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sex change is impossible.
DNA is permanent. If Riley were to take a DNA test he would 100% with absolutely zero doubt come back as male.
[–]FunctioningFully 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
It is impossible to change sex.
DNA is permanent. The day that DNA becomes "Transphobic" is the day that the human race is over.
[–]The_Best_01 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Ok, but "transitioning" is the closest people can currently get to changing sex, so it's kinda rude to intentionally call them a man when it's clear they don't wanna be one.
Political correctness shouldn't eliminate truth.
[–]5th_Law_of_Robotics 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Because of course you created a sub to attack MRAs.
[–]PM_ME_UR_PC_SPECS -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
yep
[–]5th_Law_of_Robotics 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
So I tested it, apparently that sub is just for Specs here to circle jerk over how terrible MRAs/men are. Others aren't allowed to post there.
[–]PM_ME_UR_PC_SPECS -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Anyone is welcome to post there, as long as you make a post that fulfils the criteria. Your post did not do that.
This post has been locked for the following reasons: The title of the post is sensationalised and factually incorrect. The post does not show an example of an MRA being racist, sexist, homophobic or transphobic. If you would like to appeal this judgement, please send a message to the moderators of the subreddit. Thank you for your time.
This post has been locked for the following reasons:
The title of the post is sensationalised and factually incorrect.
The post does not show an example of an MRA being racist, sexist, homophobic or transphobic.
If you would like to appeal this judgement, please send a message to the moderators of the subreddit.
Thank you for your time.
https://www.reddit.com/r/MRAsAgainstMRAs/comments/9kftzk/upm_ur_pc_specs_is_there_to_remind_everyone_that/
This is his post. If you read the link, you will find that, at least from my point of view, it is in fact a bad faith post.
If anyone would like to provide a 3rd opinion, however, (to avoid accusations of bias) they are fully welcome to.
Oh, and yall feel free to post things on there.
[–]genkernels -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Uh, that's more or less a failure to read the sidebar. As in, its an againstmensrights-style sub. It may or may not have been a response to a couple users here who challenged him to find evidence suggesting there were any substantial subset of users on this sub who were actually promoting misogyny or somesuch.
[–]FunctioningFully 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think you need to get over yourself.
Someone pointing out reality (That a man is always a man, no matter what he thinks he is) is not "Transphobic"
A) It in no way insinuates fear.
B) It is in no way irrational.
I don't think you know what phobia means.
[–]M8753 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
stop spamming
[–]Imnotmrabut[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nope - some Sub posters have that many faux accounts to flatter their on egos.
In what way is referring to trans people by their actual sex an "irrational fear"?
[–]goodmod 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
TIL that I'm a woman.
[–]Imnotmrabut[S] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The Girl Guides Beckon!
[–]McFeely_Smackup 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
#NoTrueScottsMan
[–]guntermench43 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Only the sith deal in absolutes.
Bloody philosophers and cult loons.
[–]Cristi_Tanase 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
hate post, flag it and report it as such
also comment on it labeling as hate
[–]Arctorkovich 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm an exception and I'll fight anyone who tries to tell me otherwise.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Confusion intensifies
[–]EduBA 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
all 'men' who don't commit violent crimes have female brains, whether they admit it or not
All 'Scotsmen' who put sugar on their porridge are not true Scotsmen, whether they admit it or not
[–]Imnotmrabut[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You know nothing of Scotsmen or porridge.
I know many hipster Glaswegians who would baulk at Sugar and spit blood. Why have that white poison when you can have honey, apples, blueberries and cinnamon.... It's the choochters in Edinburgh who use the White stuff and prattle on about Acai berries, carrot juice and Prosecco.
[–]EduBA 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You know nothing of Scotsmen or porridge
Well, I've known some Scotsman but I certainly know nothing of porridge, only remembered this fallacy.
[–]v573v 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
‘Real’ women rely on ‘real’ men to be violent on their behalf.
[–]matt-dot 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
WOT
[–]Waluigi_lives_matter 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Um, forgive me but that's not how it works
Love the #killallmen at the bottom, assholes
[–]skepticalbob 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This seems an important issue for mens rights. Tumblerinas are clearly part of the deep state feminist conspiracy ruining men’s lives.
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