I’ve taken notice in recent years as the stigma around sex work and porn has wanned. And now that there are more ways to send money to people. Cashapp, Paypall, Venmo, etc. And with subscriber based websites like Onlyfans, Fansly, and Justforfans. Women’s respect for men has tanked!

Now this is not mean to be an sex negative or anti-porn piece

But I have noticed that in recent times women, the more men have been willing to spend money on women the more they take it for granted. How many times have you seen a woman on her social media rant or vocally disrespect men only to have a cash app or onlyfans pinned in her bio? It has gotten so ridiculous to me. In no other situation would a person be so willing to disrespect their target audience like that.

I think all of this is because while female confidence has skyrocketed beyond reason, male confidence is at an all time low. I think so many men struggle to get intimacy and sexual access from women without using or thirsting with their wallets. I even have a theory that a lot male fetishes and kinks are rooted in insecurity. And that when men know their value and worth, spending any serious amount of money on women just doesn’t make sense.

I have my own principles for spending money on women that I want to share with you all.

1.) Never buy an onlyfans, snapchat, dropbox, private nude accounts of any kind!

-There is enough free porn on the internet to last us several lifetimes. Odds are extremely high that you can go to another site and find a girl that you can watch for free. You're just horny! Move on, block, unfollow, do whatever you need to do to stop yourself from opening your bank account for some girl you’re never going to meet!

2.) First dates never need to be fancy or elaborate.

This is a HUGE myth that so much of our social world seems to believe in. Spending $50, $100, $500, $1000 + on a first date is okay because “it's an investment into a potential relationship” or some other bs that social media is gonna tell you. The truth is, if a woman is truly interested in you, it won’t matter what you’re doing! Ice cream and a walk in the park, coffee date, a walk along the beach. All of these are perfectly fine dates. And if you do spend money make sure the amount doesn’t exceed $50. And I don’t care if you have Elon Musk level of money. You don’t need to spend much on the first date. It’s about principal not how much you’ve earned.

3.) Don’t spend money on strippers, escorts, instagram “models” , influencer types, celebrities of any kind.

While you’re spending $200, $500, $2000 on her. Flying her out and doing the most, there’s another man out there who doesn’t do any of those things and she is giving him passionate love and sex. Your goal should be to be that guy! The bottom line is. A woman won’t give you passionate affection if you pay for it or it’s transactional. This is why a lot of men who consistently deal with prostitutes, end up have disdain for women.

You can take my word for this I am a man. I have dated many women. And having these principles and rules in place have prevented me from getting finessed and exploited by greedy, entitled and self-centered women.

I’d love to hear your thoughts. Respectful ones please.

Ladies your responses are welcome but this message really isn't for you so please think carefully before you comment or just move to another thread.