For me personally, I was on Adderall but I wish I wasn't on as strong a dose at least because I don't know how to function fully without it. I have a job and I'm going to school, but I was at the max dose the end of high school and when I graduated it did nothing for me. Had to come off of it.
I lack discipline hardcore and self-motivation because I was provided Adderall for my whole life since 3rd grade. Whenever I do stuff, I'm just doing the motions. Even if what I'm doing is good for me, my heart isn't there. Getting up in the morning is a chore whereas previously it was the start of a new day. Going outside is a strain on my patience whereas before it was a way to meet new people and experience new things. I'm just not the same person and crippling depression is settling in because I want to do good, feel good, and be as happy and motivated as I was on Adderall. I will never get to experience it again.
"Boys will be boys" is fucking excuse often used for pathetic behaviour. I am not talking about playing in the mud either and not wanting to sit in a cirlce and read either - this is a phrase LONG USED to PUSH ASIDE abuse and torment as a sign of affection.
When LITTLE girls get hit and told its because a boy likes you, or you have your breast groped daily and you get told to where a minimiser bra because "Boys will be Boys" you must see that this is FUCKED UP.
If your nephew is showing aggression and you think that that's ok, be aware that you may just be playing a part in him becoming something worse. Every murderer is someone's daughter/son, teach them right from wrong before it's too late.
But my Mother, she is a women who grew up in a generation that pushed everything off as "Boys will be Boys" - she grew up to be a women who could not tell abuse from love until it got to its extremes and even then, she often went back. I grew up in foster care and womens refuges because of this, where I was often sexually/mentally/physically abused and it was shrugged off as "boys will be Boys" or told "he just did it because he likes you" too many times to count - I just stopped telling anyone - I saw countless women in these refuges go back to PIECES OF SHIT Because "he only hits me because he loves me and wants us to do better"
I get it, little boys are being shoved into a box as little girls are trying to climb out-but we need to find an even ground where one does not suffer for the other.
Because please, PLEASE understand that the phrase "boys will be boys" is like a motto for domestic abuse to SO MANY and has been used to keep "women in line" We are fucking done being shown love by having our pigtails pulled and getting pushed to the ground. How about we just let "CHILDREN BE CHILDREN" and if either gender display shitty behaviour treat it for what it fucking is.
For the record I am a 28 yr old women - I have been with a wonderful man since I was 16 and I want his rights to be protected just as much as mine.
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For me personally, I was on Adderall but I wish I wasn't on as strong a dose at least because I don't know how to function fully without it. I have a job and I'm going to school, but I was at the max dose the end of high school and when I graduated it did nothing for me. Had to come off of it.
I lack discipline hardcore and self-motivation because I was provided Adderall for my whole life since 3rd grade. Whenever I do stuff, I'm just doing the motions. Even if what I'm doing is good for me, my heart isn't there. Getting up in the morning is a chore whereas previously it was the start of a new day. Going outside is a strain on my patience whereas before it was a way to meet new people and experience new things. I'm just not the same person and crippling depression is settling in because I want to do good, feel good, and be as happy and motivated as I was on Adderall. I will never get to experience it again.
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I've gone to therapy in the past, but I can't afford it now that I'm on my own.
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"Boys will be boys" is fucking excuse often used for pathetic behaviour. I am not talking about playing in the mud either and not wanting to sit in a cirlce and read either - this is a phrase LONG USED to PUSH ASIDE abuse and torment as a sign of affection.
When LITTLE girls get hit and told its because a boy likes you, or you have your breast groped daily and you get told to where a minimiser bra because "Boys will be Boys" you must see that this is FUCKED UP.
If your nephew is showing aggression and you think that that's ok, be aware that you may just be playing a part in him becoming something worse. Every murderer is someone's daughter/son, teach them right from wrong before it's too late.
But my Mother, she is a women who grew up in a generation that pushed everything off as "Boys will be Boys" - she grew up to be a women who could not tell abuse from love until it got to its extremes and even then, she often went back. I grew up in foster care and womens refuges because of this, where I was often sexually/mentally/physically abused and it was shrugged off as "boys will be Boys" or told "he just did it because he likes you" too many times to count - I just stopped telling anyone - I saw countless women in these refuges go back to PIECES OF SHIT Because "he only hits me because he loves me and wants us to do better"
I get it, little boys are being shoved into a box as little girls are trying to climb out-but we need to find an even ground where one does not suffer for the other.
Because please, PLEASE understand that the phrase "boys will be boys" is like a motto for domestic abuse to SO MANY and has been used to keep "women in line" We are fucking done being shown love by having our pigtails pulled and getting pushed to the ground. How about we just let "CHILDREN BE CHILDREN" and if either gender display shitty behaviour treat it for what it fucking is.
For the record I am a 28 yr old women - I have been with a wonderful man since I was 16 and I want his rights to be protected just as much as mine.
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;)...it's all good, I'm pro-abortion....all the fricken in the world wouldn't keep a baby in this "festering womb"
How great does it feel to freely sass each other on the internet!
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This is just straight up bullshit. The kid is clearly in bed snuggling a dog. Show me an article or some proof of this outlandish claim.
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Shit is it today? Thought it was like in November or something.
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Were you born offended?
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