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"Men pretend to be hurt, they are faking it" (my auntie words)

November 8, 2021
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My aunt just literally said that when men are beating each other they are just pretended to feel hurt

It's just a game, it's fake

and that the real thing is when women get beaten by men.

Because they get beaten in the house

I told her true facts based on real stats: men receive more violence than women. She got all angry at me and didn't believe me for saying that, and even told me that if I was at the power, the country would become terrible towards women(I'm not against women).

When I told her that women more often get beaten by men than men get beaten by women, all of sudden she accepted it. Anyways the percentage is low in most countries. I made her notice that violence against male gender DOES exist, and just because it happens less often it doesn't mean it's less noteworthy. I also told her that much of the violence received by men is done by men, BUT that doesn't mean that men should be categorized as bad, and it doesn't mean that awareness shouldn't be spread on that topic. Instead, we all know that on the news they more often post men doing violence on women, but what about men receiving violence?(by women as well as by men?). If you base the news on statistics you should put more men receiving violence, than women.

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Title "Men pretend to be hurt, they are faking it" (my auntie words)
Author you-arent-reading-it
Upvotes 111
Comments 21
Date November 8, 2021 12:53 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]Disciple_Of_Cheesus 21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Men aren't valued for who they are, only for what they do.

[–]wheelsmatsjall 15 points16 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I have a bad back with a disc fusion and women will still ask me you can let that box and I'm like no I can't I have a 5 pound restriction don't tell me you can only lift 5 lb the women say, women always say to me at work, I'm so tired of the double standard

[–]HesperianDragon 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Gender roles that take men for granted as laborers are hard to shake, even by people who say they don't believe in gender roles.

[–]you-arent-reading-it[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's some terrible experience of prejudice, generalization and discrimination

[–]sku11_bit 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just ignore her and if she gives any advice to others then just educate them by flipping up the gender roles so they understand

[–]LEGIOVIII-Hispana 8 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

She say “men” as an immediate, vital way to severe the emotional connection to the subject. Tell her to use your name when she talks about men. “Next time you say ‘men pretending to be hurt,’ say “you” pretending to be hurt instead.” Not as easy for her to emotionally severe the connection between you two.

[–]you-arent-reading-it[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Thank you, I think it's a great advice

[–]goodmod[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You have been shadowbanned by reddit admins (not by mensrights moderators). See /r/ShadowBan for information about shadowbans.

I have approved this comment so I can reply to you.

It seems reddit has a bot that looks for certain types of user behaviour that indicate spamming or brigading. Sometimes innocent users get shadowbanned along with the bad guys. Usually they can fix this if they contact the admins.

[–]Vidar34 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Your auntie's a cunt. I would suggest you avoid her as much as is feasible.

[–]you-arent-reading-it[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

....It was hard for me to accept it, until she said those words. Yes, one of my aunties is a count. I can't avoid her too much though

[–]Selfmade_3127 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

yeah ... and WW2 was also fake ... we just pretended to die on the battlefield ... and also ... you know ... it was not "in the house"

[–]you-arent-reading-it[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's a real point. I'll use that

[–]rainbow_bro_bot 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Arguing with an old auntie is a waste of energy, they will always believe something they've read on Facebook above anything else.

[–]you-arent-reading-it[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Agree...

[–]t22dracomalfoy 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Erm, but the thing is, 98% of women will be raped, sexually assaulted and harassed, I'm not saying men can't get beaten up, men should be able to feel all emotions, show all emotions. But I see where your auntie is coming from in the concept of women being beaten in households, being raped, and being sexually harrassed

[–]you-arent-reading-it[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If you use this concept then, aside from the fact that men receive more often violence you should also know that men will more likely do more dangerous jobs than women(and they die in jobs), have higher rate of suicide of about 3 to 5 times compared to the suicide of women, have higher chances of dying by child maltreatment.

My auntie never been abused she said. At least I know what being abused by both men and women means.

[–]sohappyred 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Look at that users comment history mate. I think it's like a 13 year old or something. I wouldn't take them seriously. I think perhaps she/he has been radicalized by feminists..

[–]sohappyred 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

can you provide any proof of your statement? I mean, I know it's categorically wrong. But, I would snicker watching you post obv feminists men hating articles to support your argument.

[–]t22dracomalfoy 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I can indeed. And there not "feminist men" there just people who unlike you are standing up to the unbalance of equality fo everyone

[–]reddut_gang 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

nah they're people who want to get in your pants. I've noticed with some famous male feminists that they tend to be sexual predators, and occasionally pedophiles.

[–]shortman162cm 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

perhaps u should punch your aunt and ask her does it feel hurt ? If you do feel hurt so why can't men feel hurt too ?

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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