I decided to graph the data for penetrative sexual violence (meaning both "rape" and "made to penetrate" by the CDC definition) as well as contact sexual violence (which includes groping and coercion). The data comes from the 2017 CDC NISVS State Report.

I hate to use the word "violence" to describe some of these metrics, since "violence" includes things like "he/she kept asking me to have sex and finally I said yes", but that's the terminology that the CDC uses, so I'm using it to avoid confusion.

Imgur album: https://imgur.com/a/qIsaNR1

The charts could be better but I'm hoping something like this could be useful as a visual.

Here is the data.

Average past 12 month rate of sexual assault:

Men: 1.5% Women: 1.2%

 

Average past 12 month rate of sexual violence (all forms of contact violence, includes groping and coercion):

Men: 3.7% Women: 4%

 

Gender of perpetrator for sexual assault (from lifetime estimates):

* Male victims Female victims
Male attacker 15.8% 97.3%
Female attacker 78.5% --
Experienced both 3.5% 0.7%

 

Gender of perpetrator for sexual violence (from lifetime estimates):

* Male victims Female victims
Male attacker 26% 98%
Female attacker 69% 0.7%
Experienced both 5% 1.2%

 

Average past 12 month rate of sexual assault (multiplying the two figures):

+ Male victims Female victims
Male attacker 0.24% 1.17%
Female attacker 1.18% --
Experienced both 0.05% 0.01%
Male-on-male Male-on-female Female-on-male Female-on-female
0.29% 1.18% 1.23% 0.01%

 

Average past 12 month rate of sexual violence (multiplying the two figures):

+ Male victims Female victims
Male attacker 0.96% 3.92%
Female attacker 2.553% 0.028%
Experienced both 0.185% 0.048%
Male-on-male Male-on-female Female-on-male Female-on-female
1.15% 3.97% 2.74% 0.08%

 

If anyone else wants to take a stab at it, they're more than welcome to.

The relevant figures come from pages 18 (table 3.1), 25 (table 3.4), 26 (table 3.5), and 32 (table 3.8).

A note on terminology: The CDC defines rape as being penetrated by someone / something else, and then defines being made to penetrate in a separate category. Due to the anatomical differences between men and women, their definition excludes the primary form of rape against men (being forced inside of a woman, which any sane person would call rape). This distinction is made when the CDC quotes prevalence rates in their summaries and fact sheets, which paints a wildly different picture than their own research shows. They have been criticized for this by both MRAs as well by sexual violence researchers, who are forced to make these same adjustments themselves (see here and here). You can thank the radfem Mary Koss for that distinction.

There may be another flaw in the CDC data also. While rape and made to penetrate are easy to compare because the wording is literally identical between the two, the definition of sexual coercion may not be fair to male victims, since there is no explicit reference to the "made to penetrate" category. I hate to be that cynical and pedantic about their definitions, but the CDC doesn't have the best track record when it comes to terminology, so I think my suspicion is warranted.