R/childfree "men who whan children are a red flag to me"

Responsible_Wash_430 · 2021-11-08T00:58:30+00:00

A man wanting children is now “creepy.” This is how you know your culture is gangrenous.

Bet they have no problem sending that same man to die at war for a government and culture that no longer serves them.

I bet they also have no problem accepting social security and welfare benefits from men and their children as well.

cuteman · 2021-11-07T20:27:01+00:00

The good thing is that these people are voluntarily taking themselves out of the gene pool.

vwatchrepair · 2021-11-08T02:29:45+00:00

"Men that want....."

If it said men that DEMAND.....ok I see an issue. But, men just wanting kids. Wow.

NextToNormal1922 · 2021-11-07T20:18:28+00:00

The entire thread bashes all men I am 100% child free and always will be personally I've learned a lot from being in the child free community however everything on this thread is just attacking men and how they all Force the women to be the responsible parent that's just not true

regularcomments · 2021-11-08T00:59:33+00:00

Well, if I have a child I will have him/her, but at the same time, I understand if a man doesn´t feel prepared or simply doesn´t want to have a child, isn't people´s business.

It´s is so stupid to me that there are people who can´t see the difference, even to the point that they are capable of insulting or hurting a man to make a personal decision.

But if is woman "no...no that i...is different...is her choice and blah blah blah".

TAPriceCTR · 2021-11-07T21:09:42+00:00

I once argued with a girl who thought childbirth was a men's plot to kill their wife... to women who think my wanting children is a red flag I say "yes, you should stay as far away from me as you can and spread the word to warn all women who agree with you". When crazy is avoiding you it makes avoiding crazy that much more effective.

DangerDolan__ · 2021-11-07T20:20:14+00:00

Well then, women who are pro-choice are a red flag to me. Can’t expect you not to shutter island our kids one day because you adopted some new philosophy off of Twitter.

ThePiachu · 2021-11-08T04:07:00+00:00

What is the alternative? Having men not want kids and then the women forcing that decision? If you expect your partner not to want something, don't be surprised when they... don't want it...

bacon-wrapped-steak · 2021-11-07T20:16:10+00:00

That's some legitimate self-centered cringe.

Shay561 · 2021-11-08T02:31:04+00:00

I love how these women think that all wives have the same mindset as them in that having children will destroy their life. It’s not like some women consider having children not life destroying, but simply another chapter in their life that they willingly choose. That would be insane.

DIES-_-IRAE · 2021-11-08T06:39:51+00:00

I think at this point it's safe to say Feminism has created an equation:

Man wants X = X is bad

It is a reflexive action for Feminists and gynocentric culture in general; men are not allowed to have problems, becausethat humanizes us and invalidates Feminism Rule #1.

Abba_RA · 2021-11-08T12:10:42+00:00

Alright. Time to head to Mars. Good luck earth dwellers. /s

Mythandros · 2021-11-07T22:46:59+00:00

Yeah, that sub is full of really strange people with weird views.

Bojack35 · 2021-11-07T21:47:32+00:00

Oh that whole sub is stupid. Not wanting kids for whatever reason is fine but it seems to be much more about criticising people who do. Which is criticising people for one of the most natural common desires in humanity.

If most of the world (presumably including their parents etc.) look like red flags to you then the issue is the tint in your glasses not their flags.

pappo4ever · 2021-11-08T00:35:03+00:00

Fine with me, enjoy your cats. BTW its so funny seeing them at 35 injecting themselves with whatever stuff to have a baby or literally stealing one.

KMKEEPS · 2021-11-08T03:37:11+00:00

There's a subreddit full of Women you don't want to marry.

lifeiscooliguess · 2021-11-07T22:02:49+00:00

Sounds like they're butthurt most people have a life goal that makes them incompatible with them and they can't get over it

littleloren02 · 2021-11-07T21:20:27+00:00

This is such a screwed way of looking at it. Tbh I personally think they're just agreeing with each other to get off on "drama vibes" that they themselves cause. I can't wait to have kids

rahsoft · 2021-11-07T22:04:28+00:00

if you have that attitude then best you don't breed.

society is better off without these kind of people( the women). thats Darwinism in action

mangokushpacha · 2021-11-08T01:56:06+00:00

They aren't adults. They are still stuck in a 6 years old child stage: narcissistic and egotistical. No sane adult wants to date or marry a self-centered child.

RyanLedford90 · 2021-11-08T06:50:05+00:00

I mean if they don't want kids then I guess it would be a red flag....I don't really see the issue with the first comment. It's the other two questions that are kind of ridiculous. Just thank the dude for his time and move on to one that doesn't have kids. Don't get all bent about it.

lestratege · 2021-11-08T08:47:58+00:00

They don't seem to realize that aging alone will take care of their appearance, health and life...

biff64gc · 2021-11-08T19:59:23+00:00

Love the strawman they make. A guy wanting to be a dad means he automatically wants to make the female a child bearing slave.

The result of feminist brainwashing everyone.

liebestod0130 · 2021-11-08T00:28:22+00:00

Degenerate women. Stay away from them. Find better women.

MarquisdeSeda · 2021-11-08T01:44:19+00:00

This is why the whole nation is retarted. One nut job says something and then the next idiot needs to agree or even outdo.

Toddthetoaddd · 2021-11-08T02:44:32+00:00

makes me wanna delete this app

Ok_Leg_5107 · 2021-11-08T03:12:03+00:00

That is really quite pathetic to assume it being a prod at dominance. I'm flabbergasted.

dungeonmonkey69 · 2021-11-08T03:36:42+00:00

If theyre that nasty towards kids and men, probably good they aren't breeding anyways? 🤣

mariof135 · 2021-11-08T05:24:43+00:00

They are just repeating what society is telling them. Childless women over the age of 40 are the most depressed people in America.

OkAccountant2598 · 2021-11-08T08:02:24+00:00

So men should naturally be opposed to children?. While women have a natural instinct to have children. People still get married. And then what? They fight about it and become miserable knowing one of them will be bitter either way it ends up? If you go for guys that don't like kids there is probably a reason why he has that opinion. I can't think any reason that is a positive one. You're opinion sounds immature. Maybe these kid hating bad boys will have a cool motorcycle and play by their own rules. Take him to prom. You're parents will hate it.

goinsouth85 · 2021-11-08T14:00:23+00:00

Good God - the second comment is cringe AF. Men that want kids don’t expect you to do a damn thing you don’t want to do. Men that want kids are looking for women that also want kids.

sernamedeleted · 2021-11-08T15:56:56+00:00

As a married father of 5, this person seems to have no idea what relationships are like between parents.

EMPIREVSREBLES · 2021-11-08T16:05:17+00:00

"Men who want children are a red flag for me because it means they have to split the money between Me and the little gremlin"

Fixed it.

Spifffyy · 2021-11-08T16:43:50+00:00

This baffles me. It’s fine for people to hold their views and make their decisions on whether or not they personally want children.

BUT

As a man, it’s actually something I’m quite envious of women for - the god given gift of being able to make another human and giving birth. To me it really is a miracle. People like this take that gift for granted.

McFeely_Smackup · 2021-11-08T00:58:45+00:00

I'll bet you at least 2 of those women already have kids.

badblue81 · 2021-11-08T16:58:49+00:00

As a Man that want's to have children but probably never will, sincerely, fuck you who ever wrote that.

wheelsmatsjall · 2021-11-08T05:25:44+00:00

I want male children because I want to break the cycle of circumcision. I want to give male child a loving caring environment and to let them know how special they are.

No_Reward8608 · 2021-11-08T14:49:36+00:00

The horrors of wanting to follow 100s of millions of years that genetically encoded and developed us to want to procreate; all orgasms are toxic masculinity

No-Rain-1125 · 2021-11-08T16:09:07+00:00

'Reproducing human life is a red flag'

Alright

Ok_Leg_5107 · 2021-11-08T07:59:54+00:00

So you are banning me bc I think the woman is wrong to think that the man is trying to display his dominance over her as she suffers from psychosis basically. Hmm. Weird but okay.

doubtfulwager · 2021-11-09T22:22:31+00:00

"Does he want to raise a family with someone with similar values: To nurture, love, protect, guide children to a better life? Does he want someone that finds happiness in this process?"

"No, surely what he actually wants me is for me to feel pain, agony and suffering. That makes much more sense because then it's all about ME."

I don't understand anti-natalists. The cynicism must be so tiring and boring.

dulceariel · 2021-12-09T00:14:34+00:00

I mean they make a great point.

coffeegrounds42 · 2021-11-08T06:04:58+00:00

If you want children it's the wrong sub to be on

Bigcrawlerguy · 2021-11-09T09:45:44+00:00

Did you go to r/childfree and become enraged the posters don't want children? Are you retarded?

2021-11-09T11:18:51+00:00

it's literally subreddit about being childfree obviously they would find men who want children a red flag

SerenadeTheSword · 2022-01-09T03:36:48+00:00

Bruh what?

So what It is just red flag to her? If you don't like her just look for others

Title	R/childfree "men who whan children are a red flag to me"
Author	NextToNormal1922
Upvotes	324
Comments	93
Date	November 7, 2021 8:14 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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