Forgive me for sounding like a Puritan but I would recommend people just avoid one night stands. Men out there, and women, you'll save yourself a lot of trouble in the long run if you really get to know a person before you hop into bed with them.
There's a saying that goes, "if you're worried about having safe sex, the sex you're having isn't safe."
On a personal level I think sex has a deeper moral and spiritual meaning that places it beyond a merely transactional exchange of consent between adults. I think a lot of people deep inside actually agree that it has more meaning then the intellectually convince themselves it does. That's a component of the false accusations of "rape culture" which feminists go on about. I have no doubt many young women, and young men to be fair, engage in sexual behavior and then feel absolutely violated. But the prevailing pop culture zeitgeist has lied to them so instead of recognizing the truth (setting aside actual cases of assault/rape) that they were violated, but they violated themselves by cheapening a deep and meaningful act, the fo directly to "I was assaulted". Of course, some of those false allegations are just malicious, but there's also a deeper cultural sickness at work.
Do you guys realize this is just a completely anecdotal story that could have been crafted to enrage or excite you?
I get rallying behind “men’s rights”, but don’t let yourselves get worked up by easily fake stories. It dilutes your message and makes people on the outside think you’re easily influenced. IE, easily fooled.
If it matches the experience of so many men, then why not find a real life story of this happening from a third party source.
There are many more men with very similar stories right here in the comments.
Which are also anecdotes that have no way of being verified. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, I'm saying don't let yourself fall into the habit of believing everything you read on the internet just because it supports your viewpoint.
If you saw a picture of a story where this happened to a woman would you have even given it a second thought? Worse yet, would you think "I bet she deserved it."
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Forgive me for sounding like a Puritan but I would recommend people just avoid one night stands. Men out there, and women, you'll save yourself a lot of trouble in the long run if you really get to know a person before you hop into bed with them.
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There's a saying that goes, "if you're worried about having safe sex, the sex you're having isn't safe."
On a personal level I think sex has a deeper moral and spiritual meaning that places it beyond a merely transactional exchange of consent between adults. I think a lot of people deep inside actually agree that it has more meaning then the intellectually convince themselves it does. That's a component of the false accusations of "rape culture" which feminists go on about. I have no doubt many young women, and young men to be fair, engage in sexual behavior and then feel absolutely violated. But the prevailing pop culture zeitgeist has lied to them so instead of recognizing the truth (setting aside actual cases of assault/rape) that they were violated, but they violated themselves by cheapening a deep and meaningful act, the fo directly to "I was assaulted". Of course, some of those false allegations are just malicious, but there's also a deeper cultural sickness at work.
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Do you guys realize this is just a completely anecdotal story that could have been crafted to enrage or excite you?
I get rallying behind “men’s rights”, but don’t let yourselves get worked up by easily fake stories. It dilutes your message and makes people on the outside think you’re easily influenced. IE, easily fooled.
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If it matches the experience of so many men, then why not find a real life story of this happening from a third party source.
Which are also anecdotes that have no way of being verified. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, I'm saying don't let yourself fall into the habit of believing everything you read on the internet just because it supports your viewpoint.
If you saw a picture of a story where this happened to a woman would you have even given it a second thought? Worse yet, would you think "I bet she deserved it."
Make sure you're not falling victim to tribalism.
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