https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2018/10/02/magazine/is-it-ok-to-press-your-spouse-to-have-a-vasectomy-before-you-ditch-him.amp.html

i don't know if this has been posted already or not, so please let me know.

(btw, i posted about biffault's law in another post, it describes very clearly why a woman would do such horrible things, just in case if you were interested.)