Some TikTok of a woman getting rejected went viral

dingoperson2 · 2021-11-25T06:31:36+00:00

to meet his friends and co-workers at a grand opening for the retail company he works for,

He invited her to a function for his company, related to his job.

She completely ignores the requested dress code, and dresses up in something that looks like an enormous bright pink sheet.

bankruptCapitalist · 2021-11-25T02:30:49+00:00

Jabs said she got the message loud and clear.

“Yup! I ran,” she said, adding that she now lives in her van with her loyal cat." Well, that explains a lot...

kranti-ayegi · 2021-11-25T05:25:16+00:00

Lmao how tf is the guy a creep is beyond me. Also the comment section oh he would come begging he sent her in the Uber she's the one who made the post and she's the whining about it.

Divine_ruler · 2021-11-25T03:00:44+00:00

The article says he repeatedly asked/told her not to wear heel and makeup or get dressed up at all. Then at an athleisure store opening she comes all fancy and expects him to approve? Tf

ifurane · 2021-11-25T06:17:14+00:00

She is acting like it's a big thing because she's a woman.
Oh come on, everyone has to face rejection at some point of their life.
(I'm not saying all women are like this, women who are more mature exist)
This is like a checkpoint where you should introspect.

ThatOneCrusader1 · 2021-11-25T05:10:43+00:00

Because having preferences is so wrong...

Sudden_Example_2177 · 2021-11-25T01:46:36+00:00

They look for any excuse to hate on men. It could be the most innocuous thing possible and they will still find a reason to vilify us.

It's amazing how people remain ignorant of this fact.

VRZZRN · 2021-11-25T05:28:59+00:00

Mentally twelve.

ScarletSpider2149 · 2021-11-25T05:32:14+00:00

Imagine fumbling the bag because you didn't want to listen 😂😂😂 what a moron

Mythandros · 2021-11-25T08:29:41+00:00

Oh boo hoo, she got rejected.

Boo fucking hoo.

You're allowed to have standards and preferences, why isn't he?

She clearly didn't meet his standards, but she was lucky enough that he called her an Uber. She should feel lucky, not everyone would be that nice (nor are they obligated to be nice).

FatGimp · 2021-11-25T06:51:33+00:00

Am I understanding this right: Man hints to woman she is beautiful without make up and heels and gets chastised for it.

slipkid223 · 2021-11-25T02:37:08+00:00

A lot of folks missing the real story behind this. She is average at best. I am 100% sure she was chasing a guy out of her league but he figures "what the hell" she showed up and decided he would dip into one of the other Women in his stable.

She thinks she "deserves" Men above her status.

Selfmade_3127 · 2021-11-25T09:59:31+00:00

6 figure income, I work as consultant in Zürich for the financial sector ... imagine your GF wants to accompany you to an opening event at a Swiss bank ... dressed like a hooker ... UBER it is for you ... I'm not risking my career, livelihood and reputation for your fashion choices

coolboy_24278 · 2021-11-25T01:44:17+00:00

what is the persons username??

MarquisdeSeda · 2021-11-25T06:54:30+00:00

It’s a fuckin news story. Sad.

p3ngwin · 2021-11-25T13:17:21+00:00

jesus, what the fuck was the song"...the patriarchy..." in that video o.O

BrianGossling · 2021-11-25T07:36:09+00:00

Borderline Personality Disorder: "I'm HEARTBROKEN over a guy I went on a date for 10 minutes with"

"HERE'S MY TIKTOK OF ME CRYING OVER A GUY I LOVED FOR OVER 9 MINUTES"

dammitmitchell · 2021-11-25T01:55:39+00:00

I'm just here for a link. Share the wealth OP

goldenguerilla91 · 2021-11-25T12:12:40+00:00

From the article

Many users expressed their support for the rejected woman.

“There’s going to be an apology and begging. Please don’t listen to him, it’s only going to get worse. You’re beautiful and deserve so much more!” one said.

“Remember: This is him in the beginning. This is him on his best behavior. Run,” another said.

Jabs said she got the message loud and clear.

“Yup! I ran,” she said, adding that she now lives in her van with her loyal cat.

“I’m glad I got out after only three weeks and not three years,” she said.

??????????

Fucking women lmao

BlinkBuster · 2021-11-25T12:12:44+00:00

She saw an opportunity to milk this for false validation and she took it and ran with it

Noob_master_slayer · 2021-11-25T14:04:22+00:00

So she went to a formal grand opening of a retail company in......crop top and trousers? And she expects him, who works for the company, to be okay with it? Piss off.

shrickertt · 2021-11-25T16:18:03+00:00

does anyone realize how toxic this woman is?

she quite literally admits she uses other people for free meals, complains about people she's been with in the past (while taking zero accountability for what ACTUALLY happened), and tried to trap a man well above her pay grade with a pregnancy while simultaneously lying about being on birth control. absolutely disgusting

joyhammerpants · 2021-11-25T09:34:28+00:00

"don't wear makeup or high heels on our dates I don't like it" She shows up in makeup and high heels and is sent home. Surprised Pikachu face.

AbysmalDescent · 2021-11-25T15:28:51+00:00

It's crazy how normal it seems to so many women on social media find a way to monetize their sadness, not just into undeserved sympathy but views, attention and clout. Like a woman's cat will die and then she'll make a tiktok about herself crying to her dead cat with some weird tune to it. That's not a normal way to grief, that's a "I don't actually care but I could probably manipulate some people into giving me attention if I act out a certain way because this happened". It's sociopathic.

Then she goes... "It's so sad because I put so much effort into looking pretty", when she was clearly doing this for herself. It even looks like he asked her not to prior to the date. Also, men spend countless hours at the gym, at the office and dating sites, trying to improve their appearance, status or game to appeal to women. Could you imagine if men brought that up every time they went on a date, if not specifically to pressure women into doing what men want them to do or pressure women into paying for men to show up? He probably put time and effort into looking the best he could too.

Selfmade_3127 · 2021-11-25T09:00:40+00:00

so men getting rejected on a daily base is OK

but a woman getting rejected is f*cking New York Post news ... this has to be a joke!

ImpossibleAir4310 · 2021-11-25T10:53:55+00:00

If it was an Alice in Wonderland themed work event, then he’s a total dick.

That coat is so loud it would distract me from live gunfire.

ifurane · 2021-11-25T11:08:18+00:00

You know what, instead of crying about it on tiktok she should've apologised to him.

p3ngwin · 2021-11-25T13:22:24+00:00

"What happened to chivalry ?"
<calls chariot for woman>
"WWWWHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAA !"

Hauntingmycorpse · 2021-11-25T16:43:48+00:00

i like how the article makes her out to be the victim...when she did it to herself

Kindly-Town · 2021-11-25T10:10:02+00:00

Don't choose high value men if you can't meet their standards. They are rare, you are not.

heheA10gobrrrrt · 2021-11-25T10:56:10+00:00

So , the event they were going to was rather formal.

I don't see the problem here , she didn't show up in a formal outfit , so the guy didn't want her attending with him.

Openings or any business events , that's not your time to look flashy , just blend in the crowd , make small talk and have a chill time.

If she was going to her company's opening and he showed up in a super flashy brightly colored outfit she'd do the same.

I don't get how this is news worthy , or why the tiktok comments are bashing on the dude , he's not a creep just wants to look corporate for 1 corporate event.

xTheVyrusx · 2021-11-25T07:26:59+00:00

Men having tiktok alone would make the internet explode so the play is blown dead as a false start anyway. I make people pull out their phone to show me the latest in human stupidity for attention on tiktok I’ll NEVER download that app.

xsintrik- · 2021-11-25T11:07:35+00:00

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BreakinLiberty · 2021-11-25T05:54:44+00:00

Ok not gonna lie her outfit was actually no as bad as I expected

It’s actually more casual than anything

But i guess if he wasn’t into it then it was his right to send her away. She just went online to start drama

NonnyNu · 2021-11-25T08:23:16+00:00

We should be sad for anyone who spent time looking nice for another and got rejected. But you’re right, if the tables were turned the woman would get applauded and the man would not receive any sympathy at all.

codeine_inmycereal · 2021-11-25T08:32:46+00:00

the fact that this is somehow news is absurd

Dwoodward85 · 2021-11-25T14:49:36+00:00

Hmm

Tiktok

social media

views makes money

hmm

Spidey sense is tingling.

MagnanimousCannabis · 2021-11-25T14:53:08+00:00

This is the equivalent of your date asking you to dress up for a nice for a work function and you show up in workout clothing

It's not rocket science

TRDPaul · 2021-11-25T15:13:16+00:00

"the creep had previously told her not to wear make-up or heels on dates"

"I spent 40 minutes on my make-up"

auMatech · 2021-11-25T16:17:39+00:00

Seems like she's fishing for sympathy or attention

MrDirk420 · 2021-11-25T15:22:37+00:00

Damn! Good for you bro! Had my ex-wife pull stunts similar to this kind of behaviour at my work functions. Started going without her then divorced her. Not only was it good for me personally but career wise as well.

FisterMisterSister · 2021-11-25T18:02:43+00:00

'40 minutes of makeup' fucking lol

Kaylarmagic · 2021-11-25T18:03:34+00:00

Oh good lord, as a woman, I don't claim her.

Runtyaardvark · 2021-11-25T19:08:22+00:00

“Adding that she now lives in her van with her loyal cat” LMFAO

BeNice_777 · 2021-11-25T21:13:26+00:00

"Jabs — who posts regularly about her “dating chronicles” on the social media platform"

What are the odds that this whole thing is made up to generate clicks?

swimmingbutterknife · 2021-11-25T21:33:09+00:00

"Can I call you a uber?" fuck that, the right answer is "what are you still doing here?" I mean the dude was even polite about it and she's still bitching about the fact that someone pointed out that her behaviour and dress code wasn't appropriate. Theese people need to learn some humility and respect for others.

Slow-Brush · 2021-11-25T21:41:40+00:00

And she posted regularly about her dating life? This alone is a red flag 🥺 JEEBUS.

StrangeSelf8945 · 2021-11-26T01:13:04+00:00

I hopped on my anon profile for this, long time lurker on my main. I am relatively big on TikTok and I will never collab with anyone, especially women creators who make men/dating stories their entire content lol. They are all self absorbed people who either lie outright about their content (like cmon, who has 100+ “male nightmare” dating stories?) or just steal other people’s content for money because everything is so monetized. I had this very popular creator DM me once, saying how she was a huge trump supporter and liked my vid about the American flag meaning something different than what it meant 10+ years ago? I said nothing about trump lol and told her I wasn’t much of a fan of the guy. Her response? PLEASE DONT TELL ANYONE, YOUR CONTENT MISGUIDED ME, I DONT WANNA BE CANCELLED BLAH BLAH BLAH. It’s all fake guys lol I know y’all already knew this but it’s really sad. I’ve seen so many female creators shit on guys for a few views. Only care about themselves.

97sirdogealot · 2021-11-25T11:10:20+00:00

Dick move tbh. But women pull this kinda shit on a regular basis. Maybe we should start calling it a pussy move. Still doesn't excuse his behaviour though.

0utsid3r1620 · 2021-11-25T12:20:27+00:00

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Complex-Stress373 · 2021-11-25T10:02:34+00:00

jajjajaja

Right_Pepe · 2021-11-25T14:58:30+00:00

Honestly, ain't it abit childlish? I don't care is it male or female. What is the point of posting a video of turning down somebody? Ain't there better things to do instead recording you turn down somebody and posted it on tik tok for likes or whatever tik tok use?

Sounds like children flexing their "cool"energy

stevee05282 · 2021-11-25T10:03:54+00:00

I disagree. If the genders were reversed this is still a completely ridiculous and rude thing to do. It's not empowering and it's petty af. You don't date someone because of their clothes, stop being shallow

No-Feedback7437 · 2021-11-26T02:32:32+00:00

People get rejected all the time I have been rejected some and I have rejected too he was more polite than others

reddut_gang · 2021-11-27T01:04:37+00:00

Of all the posts the brigading trolls decide to come out at once for, this is it? I love it man. At the end of the day, the most they care about is trivial shit.

Affectionate-Win-375 · 2021-11-25T05:16:00+00:00

My comment became irrelevant as I learned more about the situation. I still kept it up because I didn't see the problem and I got dislike bombed :(. Nothing to see here...

Alternative_Swan4969 · 2021-11-25T01:47:23+00:00

Personally I have to disagree, women are sometimes seen as “queens” for rejecting someone. However that’s usually in response to someone who is legitimately acting in a bad way (rude, disrespectful, disgusting, etc…) However if and when women turn someone down for something dumb like an outfit I feel it’s more inclined for them to be insulted and called prissy or prudish

edit: instead of blindly downvoting i’d love to have an actual conversation with you guys

Kenznottz · 2021-11-25T03:59:53+00:00

It don’t matter about gender reversal still a shit thing to say. It’s in a man’s nature to chase a woman, so it’s kind of expected of us to make first move.

Omicron777 · 2021-11-25T07:19:44+00:00

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Title	Some TikTok of a woman getting rejected went viral
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Date	November 25, 2021 1:42 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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