Stop posting things painting all women as abusers

Stripes1974 · 2019-01-25T02:50:16+00:00

Agreed.
Now, convince those feminists (the ones who do this to men, the 'man haters', as you say) to stop posting things painting all men as abusers.

Then, maybe we can all agree to sit down and actually get to what the TRUE problems between men and women are...

PaulMurrayCbr · 2019-01-25T03:10:57+00:00

Teach women not to whip their children with the kettle cord.

Women hold a hegemonic, structural power over children, it therefore follows that every woman who doesn't speak out is complicit.

mikesteane · 2019-01-25T03:23:10+00:00

We can't stop, because we never started.

2019-01-25T03:52:55+00:00

Did WE invent the Duluth Model?? I don't think we did.

EricAllonde · 2019-01-25T11:03:37+00:00

All mainstream media in all western countries: "All men are evil abusers, of women. Also, all women are helpless, innocent victims, of men. See? Here are a gazillion examples of men doing bad things to women and virtually no examples of women doing bad things to men. See? Men suck."

This sub: "Look, here are a few examples of men doing good things and women doing bad things. See? This narrative that all men are bad and all women are good is false. Both men and women do both good and bad things. Men are not all evil monsters, that's just a small minority of men. Most men are good, decent, care about their families and they face issues & challenges the same as women do. Men deserve the same empathy and respect as women."

You, a tone-policing troll: "Woah, guys! You have to stop this! You're going against the prevailing media narrative and that's making us look bad. Get with the program and stop contradicting the feminist world view."

Hmmm.

GingerRazz · 2019-01-25T04:01:27+00:00

While there are many posts on the ill deeds of women, most of the conversation focuses on the lenient treatment they get when they act in such ways. There's a difference between just complaining about women's deeds and talking about the societal biases exposed by such events.

OrangeBarrel123 · 2019-01-25T04:15:24+00:00

I agree with this in a way, but I find it as a way to counteract the feminist narratives of men being the majority (only) bad people in the world.

By showing women behaving poorly (and it's not super often unless it's a pretty horrible crime where the woman gets off pretty scott free) it isn't saying ALL women, just pointing out the jailtime gap.

HeForeverBleeds · 2019-01-25T04:51:00+00:00

Acknowledging the existence and danger of female abusers in a society that generally ignores or downplays their existence is not the same as painting all women as abusers

KDulius · 2019-01-25T14:01:28+00:00

I think you might be happier in /r/menslib as your issue seems to be that people refuse to buy into the "man bad, woman good" narrative

shellbross · 2019-01-25T10:10:30+00:00

Women are not often direct abusers, they usually use other males and/or the government to do the dirty for them.

user_miki · 2019-01-25T10:28:03+00:00

Why not Mr or Ms concern troll?There are many coming here to tell us what to do what to say.We played nice and our rights are less than 10 years ago.This is a fact.

Tell a woman with a knife or a hammer in her hand to stop abuse.Or try to stop her without going to jail.

They are abusers too .They are predatory ,they are stocking men( especially men with status money and look).They send unsolicited sexual messages.They make men fight against each other.They abuse men much more that opposite. The ones which are not physical they use emotional abuse and blackmail.

lostapwbm · 2019-01-25T15:47:28+00:00

Hurting men does no good for real feminism...

Ah but it does. Part of defeating your enemy (and feminists do consider men to be the Class Enemy, as indicated by their behavior towards men) involves demoralizing him. In fact, the best victory is taking your enemy's will to fight so that he doesn't even consider whether or not he is actually able to fight back.

Us painting women as abusers is no better than “feminists” (really just man haters under the guise of feminism) painting men as abusers.

Man-haters have always been present in feminism and feminists have done nothing to censure them or expel them or discredit them.

Don't listen to what they say. Watch what they do. Like in three-card monte, the mouth is just a distraction for the hands.

gbBaku · 2019-01-25T18:44:40+00:00

An argument for doing this that I haven't seen in this thread is debunking the women are wonderful effect.

Feminists actually do think that having a shitty personality is a male exclusive problem, and women are just made out of sugar and spice and everything nice, and those little cute innocent creatures are incapable of inflicting harm.

The power of debunking this with counterexamples lies in the numbers. One or two cases can be written of as outliers which is easy to admit. Having countless of examples of terrible women should make it apparent that being an ass might be a genderless thing.

Also, most of these cases are also examples of the sentencing gap, which is also a male issue that needs to be talked about.

NyxionYT · 2019-01-31T12:53:44+00:00

I wouldn’t say that most of the MRA sub post women as abusers it’s just that we talk about how are rights are infringed upon. Most of the situations involve the aggressor being a woman. Any rouge comments or post obviously don’t represent the true spirit of this sub reddit and it’s not healthy to generalize the whole sub based on that fact. This is where we come to talk about our rights and issues as men, it depends on how you interpret the post here. Anything on this sub can be said with enough evidence and reasoning to back your claim.

Title	Stop posting things painting all women as abusers
Author	OrangeBarrel123
Upvotes	3
Comments	23
Date	January 25, 2019 2:43 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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