Some women project themselves on men and imagine men "holding tears". They imagine men and guys in some constant state of being "chocked with tears" and "holding them". We are not holding anything wet in our chest. Our emotional system is different than women's (our limbic system is different). Biologically, we don't have women's tears-response. In fact, 150 years ago, men projected their emotional system on women and called women hysterical for crying; now, some women do the same to men, by projecting on men their female emotional system, and calling men "autistic" or "repressed" for not having the female emotional system. Yes, we can shed a tear in some movie once a year, but no, neurobiologically, we do not have what causes the frequent tears-response of women and girls - we are not "holding" tears, we don't have those tears, they are generated by women's limbic system. We do express feelings, all the time, but we do it with words. The entire Western Literature was created by this. If you want to know our feelings, it's not hard at all - simply listen to us.

Edit: Who said our emotions are repressed. Feminists? Womansplainers? I express my emotions in talks with friends, with my wife, in writing here, in shouting sometimes (today I shouted at a driver who blocked my driveway), in poetry, in facial expressions. Feminists deleted all the manners men express feelings - particularly with words - and invented for us "repressed female crying" that we don't have. Whenever we express feelings in words, here for example, feminists tell everyone not to listen - then - wow - a mystery! What do men feel??? They never say!! What a conundrum!! We need to make them cry because this is how women express feelings and as we all know only women are human so they are the standard for how humans are built - it's not that men have a different emotional system, a male emotional brain circuit - no - men are just a malfunctioning woman, we need to fix them, make them have a female emotional brain system - the correct way to being a human being.

I know that I have plenty of feelings and emotions and that I express them, but that I have not one single tear - I don't have this biological response and neither almost all other men. I wet one eye once a year at a movie, I once got tears in my eyes when talking about something related to my son, but I do not have in me any repressed tears that feminists imagine that I'm "holding" because of their absolute confidence that there's only one human existence - theirs - so if they constantly have tears in their chest I must have them too and if I'm not crying it's "because I'm holding it", "because society", "because patriarchy". Lie, lie, lie, lie. It's not there and never was, because I'm a biological male with a biological male limbic system and my means of expressing emotions are different because of biological reasons - how my male emotional brain circuit works - and I'm not a broken female, I'm just a guy.

All you need to do to know what my feelings are is LISTEN to what I SAY, with WORDS, because this is how I express emotions, VERBALLY, not in crying and it's not a choice, I'm just a male, this is us males - welcome to our biological reality.