Talk about gender-neutral language double standards...

This is all part of the Duluth Model. They just copied the image from the official site.

They even go to direct sexism when they say that the Duluth Model "prioritizes the voices and experiences of women who experience battering in the creation of those policies and procedures"

The reason they give for the wheels not being gender-neutral is:

When women use violence in an intimate relationship, the context of that violence tends to differ from men. First, men’s use of violence against women is learned and reinforced through many social, cultural and institutional avenues, while women’s use of violence does not have the same kind of societal support. Secondly, many women who do use violence against their male partners are being battered. Their violence is primarily used to respond to and resist the controlling violence being used against them. On the societal level, women’s violence against men has a trivial effect on men compared to the devastating effect of men’s violence against women.

Making the Power and Control Wheel gender neutral would hide the power imbalances in relationships between men and women that reflect power imbalances in society. By naming the power differences, we can more clearly provide advocacy and support for victims, accountability and opportunities for change for offenders, and system and societal changes that end violence against women.

I think it is right to point out here that the Duluth Model was brought about at a time when the only research on domestic violence was targeting women only (Erin Pizzey opened the first DV shelter in 1971 and the first actual research that included men showed equal numbers of male and female DV victims and was published in 1980, the same year that the Duluth Model was introduced)