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[–]PuddleOfMush 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's one of the reasons in spite of being anti-leftist I've never been able to completely align myself with conservatives. They typically have really irritating ideas about masculinity. I remember a few years ago Gavin Mcinnis went on a weird vitriolic rant about how men who played video games were "manbabies". Wow sorry dude, sorry a hobby offends you so much. Sorry technology has moved past the 1950s to create more gratifying and entertaining activities than fishing. How do you feel about men who like to cook, by chance?
But yeah, Tomi is confused. She's pushing the traditional idea of masculinity while not realizing that SHE does not fit the traditional idea of femininity. Traditional femininity isn't a "successful, independent" woman. Traditional femininity is being a homemaker, and I reckon she's none too pleased with that idea. How can you expect a traditional man to commit to you if you have nothing to offer him?
[–]Lethn 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yep, so I'm putting myself out there on dating sites and you see this shit constantly and I regard it as a red flag so I keep away from women who spam that sort of thing over social media. It's just a constant sea of profiles with negativity, judgemental attitudes and assuming the worse and then they wonder why they can't get boyfriends.
Yeah this is why I don't align with Conservatives either and on a personal note with Tomi Lahren if that's the way she thinks about men before she's even met them why should I take the risk? An example of this would be the classic "Don't swipe right if you're here to hookup" wow thanks you're already assuming the worse about me before I've even clicked a button.
Too many people love to screech about how you shouldn't generalise when it comes to women but watch how the hypocritical anti-male mob stays silent or even cheer women on who do the same about men. This is why those fuckers are my targets for argument now more than feminists because they like to think they're safe and can attack people.
[–]PuddleOfMush 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's a saying older than any of us here but it's true: Women don't actually know what they want.
Back when I bothered with dating sites I was only ever interested in the ones with a personality who seemed to want a relationship. A lot of them would even say "Not here for hookups" or whatever. So, I'd spend a couple of minutes of my time, each time, typing up a personalized introduction. No fuckboy shit, no pickup lines. Always ended with something like "I see your profile says you like reading, what's your favorite genre?" or whatever. Something to show actual interest and get them talking about themselves. Know what I got 95 out of 100 times? Ignored.
And it sucks. It sucks putting effort in and they can't dignify you with the 3 seconds it would take to type the words "Sorry I'm not interested". So then all the men interested in a relationship get dejected and leave and women wonder why the remainder is only trying to put a dick in them. They do this to themselves.
Slightly off topic rant but it needed to be said.
[–]RyansPutter 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So basically she got pumped and dumped and hates all men now.
[–]MGTOWayoflife 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm a real man. That's why I don't tolerate women's bullshit.
[–]Gaugeskye2019 -4 points-3 points-2 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I mean, boyish men are a real joke and should not be tolerated by men at all. If you’re for bettering our sex, for better understanding and relationships. You should call out men who act like children and help them change. Otherwise it’s just lots of this “psa” from women.
[+]OkLetterhead91 points 3 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
There is no "boyish men" . all men are real men.
Men have the right to act as they see fit. stop shaming men just because they have different life style.
[–]HesperianDragon 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I've worked with boyish men. I don't have any problem with their lifestyle, but I do have a problem with them when they don't pull their weight and they get everyone else in trouble.
(I remember a specific example in Basic Training where this one guy wouldn't make his bunk in the morning so the Drill Sergeant would see it and the whole platoon would get punished. The guy kept saying he didn't know how to make his bunk despite being taught several times but the real reason is that he didn't want to do it because he was used to mommy doing it for him.)
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So why didn’t you beat his ass when lights out? One for all and all for one mentality, imagine if he was the one on the battlefield who supposed to have had your six, would you be comfortable with that because I wouldn’t. What’s a mummies boy doing in the services anyway, that’s the last place you can expect to be carried?
[–]HesperianDragon 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He got into a fight with someone else. I helped clean up the blood, but he started making his bunk after that.
[–]Gaugeskye2019 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey op this bruh. Boyish men are fine. In moms basement trying to fuck everything in sight and not giving a fuck. Yea they are funny and cool guys most of the time. Boys are boys for a reason, they haven’t ascended to manhood, it’s ok. Not all males have to be men. They can be adult boys. Doesn’t make them a man. A man does right by himself and his family. Boys do what’s only good for them. Good or bad. I’ll never shame a boyish man. Other than to tell him he’s being boyish and I’f he wants a better life, to start being a man.
[–]Gaugeskye2019 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When did men’s rights turn into a whine fest about what woman say about males who are boys. I thought this was for ending this stigma of men that we abuse and are angry all the time. The image that we can’t keep our children and raise them to be good people. The image that we men are not just a body shield for woman or other MEN who don’t wanna do it for themselves. I thought that’s what this sub and movement stood for. Not what some mean girl called you online. This ain’t high school and that bitch ain’t Regina George.
[+]ParisCummings_ -7 points-6 points-5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tomi is spot on once again. Love it. I can’t 💯 relate to everything she says in this video. Been there, got the tshirt, the whole nine yards. So glad I’m not on my own
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[+]OkLetterhead91 points [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
There is no "boyish men" . all men are real men.
Men have the right to act as they see fit. stop shaming men just because they have different life style.
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