UK: Woman slammed after she 'blocked' a man from using a gender neutral toilet. OP: Not much equality here.

mistralol · 2021-11-09T11:41:49+00:00

Ok so make it equal. Allocate the same amount of space for female and male toliets. Then you find out that men's toliets can fit about 2-3x the amount of facilities in them because men are prepared to basically stand shoulder to sholuder with each other when they are taking a piss.

What the women discussing here fail to realize that the men's toliet at a concert / festival is typically something like a trench.... eg like this https://www.alamy.com/stock-photo-a-very-long-urinal-in-the-mens-toilets-at-the-allianz-stadium-moore-92469980.html

So when you see comments like "'Shouldn't they all be gender neutral?" well sure.... if you want you can try lol..... just be careful you don't fall in..... its kinda hard to equalize anatomy... cause its reality and there are practicle differences. The women commenting as per usual have not really though about what they are saying.....

Men typically are typically prepared to give up some of their privacy to pee and in turn they don't have to queue. I don't see any of the women discussing this option in any of their comments.....

To be frankly honest. Women need to go solve their own toileting problems if its a problem for them. Only one thing men will do is "don't mess ours up" cause the moment you start to make us queue to use unisex toliets is the same moment we will go outside and start making our our toliet round the back of the building.... simply because "we can" and "we will" and because we won't tolerate it.

Its the same old story with equality. In order to level the playing field. Rather than pull women up. They want to handicap / disable men in order to make them equal. eg implement unisex toliets so men would now have to queue equallity with the women rather than just go solve the queueing problem for women.

bludragon355 · 2021-11-09T17:52:56+00:00

"He was not a trans woman, he was a man"

How DARE she assume their gender!

Dispositionate · 2021-11-09T13:30:20+00:00

I've lost count of the amount of times women have barged into men's toilets in pubs, clubs, etc - citing "you haven't got anything I haven't seen before!" and nobody said anything.

They always complain that their line is "too long", but don't seem to understand that it's a privacy issue. I've seen men accidentally go into women's toilets, genuinely accidental, and security were right in there to throw them out of the building.

pfizerface · 2021-11-09T16:57:49+00:00

The comments on the article from Mumsnet are so pathetic. They are claiming discrimination as mem have 2 options 😂

How thick are these entitled femcels? There's a urinal for quick piss. The gender neutral are there for men that need a #2.

SweatyAdvance · 2021-11-09T14:00:54+00:00

Off topic, but I am sick a fucking tired of seeing women in the mens room because "the line is shorter."

NO MAN WOULD EVER BE ALLOWED IN THE WOMENS regardless of the line, so why the fuck are you in here!?!

JaggedGreen88 · 2021-11-09T09:49:33+00:00

Either the lady or the writer can't keep their story straight. One minute they're gender neutral, next time time its ladies only.

If they were legitimately GN then she deserved to be turned on. Her actions were a typical display of female privilege. Especially when she called another woman to come ahead of him. She had no place and no right to do so.

If they were ladies only then she was in the right and dude should have gone to the mens.

Assuming she was correct labeling him "drunk" I'd also like to point out this is a great example of men needing to be more aware in public places. Go out, have a good time, drink. But not so much you can't tell the ladies for the gents restrooms.

This probably makes me sound transphobic but I'm not really for blanket GN bathrooms. I think it should be men, women, and GN. With the last being open to anyone who wants to use them.

p3ngwin · 2021-11-09T12:59:47+00:00

of course, the comments are "he's a creep" because he's a man, how typically misandrist of these witches.

Skinnyguy202 · 2021-11-09T15:01:33+00:00

Men have men bathrooms Women have women bathrooms

Also, how do women complain about men going in their bathroom calling them perverts and worry about the little girls in their, yet, they feel all the entitlement to go in the men’s?

bilgediver · 2021-11-09T13:18:57+00:00

that entire story just seems weird. I think there's something missing from the story here.

are the "mens" toilets just a urinal? Maybe he had to poop?

JaegerMoon · 2021-11-09T15:16:22+00:00

Same thing happened to me at a mall here in Toronto area. Walked in to the gender neutral bathrooms...20 women giving me the evil eye. Had to piss and don't give a fuck...walked into the individual enclosed toilet, took a piss. Came out, more evil eyes as I wash my hands...fuck you bitches.

Note: I hadn't considered it until I went in there...but with a men's only bathroom I never ever have to touch a public toilet seat. In a gender neutral bathroom...I have to touch the seat every time since they are all down 99.999% of the time. Fucking gross.

Whystare · 2021-11-09T09:35:47+00:00

Wow! What a news worthy incident.

KurashiDragon · 2021-11-09T09:56:17+00:00

So I read through the story and I'm not really sure what to think about this. Like did they make the Ladies room gender neutral or is there a Men's Ladies and Gender neutral bathroom? This site is vague on that and I'm not sure if I should care or not. If they just made the ladies room gender neutral, I actually think she did the right thing here. If there are three bathrooms, I have no qualms about calling the woman here an asshole. Like, "there's the men's like right there." Ok so what? if you're that concerned about a man being in the gender neutral line, find the women's line and cry about it to someone who cares.

DubsPackage · 2021-11-09T14:16:56+00:00

If it's a gender neutral toilet then it's a gender neutral toilet, anybody has a right to use it, for any reason or for no reason.

Who made you the toilet police?

Ppl who make a big deal about toilet use are karens, look a toilet is just a hole with water in it, it doesn't care what junk you have.

Not having enough women's toilets is a seperate issue.

jinladen040 · 2021-11-09T14:26:12+00:00

Just further proof that Gender Neutral Restrooms are creating more crime. Just like that Girl that got raped in a Gender Neutral Bathroom in Virginia by a Boy wearing a Skirt.

And what we're seeing here is more poor Liberal Policy. The same Liberal Policy that gave women more rights than us.

Insidious-Sid · 2021-11-09T23:05:32+00:00

This kind of thing makes me want to sneak into women's toilets, take a massive three-coil anaconda-sized shit, use a 1/2 roll of toilet paper, and leave the toilet seat up on the whole unholy pile of misery.

willbeonekenobi · 2021-11-09T15:18:35+00:00

I wonder how far this would have gone if no gender neutral bathroom and she wanted to use the mens room. I don't know about other men but I wouldn't give more than 2 shits if a woman comes in, does her business and leaves if the que to the womens restroom is long and slow (probably because based on what I've heard and sometimes have seen they tend to chit-chat more and tend to go in groups even though only 1 or two in the group need it).

Rol9x · 2021-11-09T19:46:38+00:00

Not really my problem, to be honest. They asked for it, they need to live with it. I am not worried about using the toilet and I can't wait for a pervert to say anything wrong to me.

ApprehensivePrice552 · 2021-11-09T20:31:53+00:00

What if the guy had to take a shit?

Welder1919 · 2021-11-09T20:40:25+00:00

Going off the title for this loan I thought gender-neutral bathrooms were for everybody not just men not just women not just non-binary people not male to female trans people not female to male trans people but everyone?

NoC2H6OnlyGas · 2021-11-09T21:53:33+00:00

She was never once "slammed" but only verbally critiqued. I don't feel sorry for her anymore

MrSalvos · 2021-11-09T22:57:00+00:00

Why was she soooo fucking vague I don't know if it was a ladies room or gender neutral room. If it was ladies 100% right to tell him to fuck of GN she had no right to fuck off, maybe the men's didn't have shitters and he needed to shit .

Alternative_Swan4969 · 2021-11-09T23:43:59+00:00

the whole point of a gender neutral bathroom is that all genders can use it. plus how did she know the person was a man? it would be awfully rude to tell someone to go to the mens bathroom if that’s not where they wanted to go.

of course we all get angry when there’s a line for something but no single one of us is entitled to first place, regardless of gender. 1 more person in line should be at most a 5 minute wait

i wouldn’t necessarily say this is a mens rights issue, but it’s definitely a human decency issue lmao.

420Riffs · 2021-11-10T00:33:02+00:00

Actually one of the biggest reasons womens bathrooms have queues is because a lot of them use the mirror, makeup, fix their hair, chat with the friend they went in with, etc.

nosleepincrooklyn · 2021-11-10T04:27:43+00:00

*taps head

More stalls means more places to do blow

datfunnymeme · 2021-11-10T06:28:35+00:00

Da fuq? Ivread the article. She said, she broke the lines and went ahead and when she was done she called other women to do so too... Wtf? Those men shouldn't have allowed her to do so. They are breaking the rules and getting away with their propogsndas... Men we need to speak up.

Historical_Draw_9923 · 2021-11-10T14:08:21+00:00

Observe that the entitled "thing" did the same thing they do to transgender women, labeled the guy a "creep," which is female code for pervert or rapist.

Title	UK: Woman slammed after she 'blocked' a man from using a gender neutral toilet. OP: Not much equality here.
Author	furchfur
Upvotes	289
Comments	56
Date	November 9, 2021 9:12 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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