Hi this is an update to this post.

Both the acuser(26F) and i were given opportunity to speak. I was told to speak first..

I told my side of the story as calmly and effectively as I could.

And when her time came, she first asked the supervisor if she could share in private. Claiming that she feared i would 'interrupt' her.

She had a lot of plot holes in her side of the story. Like, she wrote in her letter that she was sitting away from me but while telling the story she was exaggeratedly saying that I was yelling "directly at her face". Didnt seem like the supervisors noted these plot holes.

I couldn't bear it cos she kept exaggerating the details of what happened. She kept exaggerating and adding little lies to appear as though she was the victim. She also added "what if he and i were alone in a room. Im fearing for my safety after seeing his outburst(exaggerating how i spoke)". She kept doing this, and whenever she mentioned my name she would kinda yell it out accusingly. I was just too shocked to speak out. Especially because my character was being attacked Infront of my superiors.

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Ive noted some of the lies she said in her speech (noted in my diary) and I hope i can inform the superiors in the next meeting. Shes taken 2weeks off, so the superiors decided to postpone the next meeting till she comes back (ie in 3 weeks time)

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I just want to end this update with arguably the most important aspect of this whole thing - the amount of support and encouragement I received. And the 3 kind award-strangers. Your support made all the difference when I was in the sitting.

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u/Gobaww - thank you tremendously for your generosity! Its so enlightening knowing a mans/males rights and emotions are valued by other people too

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