Vocab matters - the terms "destructive feminism" and of course equally "destructive masculism", matter to get beyond kids-level shouting "yes/no", pointing fingers, "I'm right/you're wrong - no YOU're WRONG",

Reddit1984Censorship · 2022-10-05T13:20:20+00:00

Politicaly speaking feminism is what feminism does, not what wikipedia says it is.
Politics is not a software algorithm running on wikipedia definitions, is people handling power in messy corrupt ways, what matters is what they do not what they say they want.
However i like the concept of destructive X to be able to breakthrough the conversation.

SvenAERTS · 2022-10-05T13:10:53+00:00

Let me kick-off.
One of my Top 5 insights:

Destructive feminism = lead by a small pathocratic group of "1%-ers" with an antisocial personality disorder. How to deal with them? Write down their arguements - they're not particularly smart, repeat the 5-6 arguments, come to this group to debunk and find the logical fallacies in their reasoning.
1% of humanity have an antisocial personality disorder, a neural abnormal inner brain that can often be made visible via brain scan and FRMimaging scans. Heuristically it is often portrayed as manifesting on 4 axis: narcissism, psychopathy, Machiavellianism, sadism. For the 1%-ers, all that matters is the "me, myself and I", "useful / not-useful". They observe the 99% of us, abide by some "social schema" on what is "the proper thing to do and behave". They see that as a weakness: in this world, the most important person is you, so everything that stands between yourself and your satisfaction, happiness is a hindrance, so, why not eliminate it? Everything is allowed and goes: flattery, smiling one moment, guilt shaming the next, threatening, intimidating, back-stabbing, flat out knocking-you out, why not kill? "You are now useful to me because you can bring me to wherever because you have a car. Sure we can exchange useful services, - so we can follow that - until, their brain does not inhibit them to take a sudden turn, for example "... but I don't like your driving style, I know where you keep your car-keys, so I steel them and whilst at it - it is very annoying if you would complain with the police, so I better kill you now. Problem solved for ME." That is of course an extreme case. This complete unpredictability makes that in the pyramid of a dictatorship where nothing makes sens, you don't know who's going to put a dagger in your back, you spent so much time elbowing you to to the top it is a shame to waste all that energy and bail out - so, the use of "fortune tellers" is very frequent in the hope they manage to bring some sense of normality and predictability in that clusterfuck.
It is all impaired empathy and remorse, and bold, dis-inhibited, and egotistical traits. Relevant words: sociopaths, pathocracy, sekt, dictatorship, ponerology - the study of evil. A subsection that make up the 1%-ers are the rapists = 0.17% of humans. Prison: 40% are 1%-ers, so most of them have been already removed from society; so police have a LOT of experience with them, so make sure to report them so the police can get them to the right treatment. 99% of humanity are normal and you can count on them for help. It is a crime not to help a person in need as it is in the Universal Declaration of Human Rights: Article 1
All human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights. They are endowed with reason and conscience and should act towards one another in a spirit of brotherhood.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antisocial\_personality\_disorder

whatever13576569 · 2022-10-05T13:15:17+00:00

Well, I really like it. It's so much better than the poorly defined "toxic" or simply using no adjective and just saying that, for instance, "feminism" is bad as a blanket statement (which it is not).

It also opens the door to throw in the word "constructive" so that we can have a much clearer dichotomy which would lead to a much more balanced discussion...since it will force you to acknowledge both sides.

It reminds me of yin and yang.