I had a girlfriend get pissy with me when I refused her sex. I had just eaten and was all full and not in the mood. I'd like to say she handled it with maturity with “No problem, later on then,” but she didn't. She called me a faggot. Nothing like a little homophobia to compensate for your insecurities.

Feminists have had a lot to say about women having the right to say “no,” and I actually agree with that. She doesn't want to have sex, she doesn't have to. Sounds reasonable to me. But the same is true for men. If you don't want to for any reason, you have the right to say “no,” and no stupid homophobic responses should change that.