When you see MRAs talking about feminists, they're really just talking about mainstream, radical feminists who oppose men's rights. So if you're not one of those feminist, then you have nothing to worry about because they're not talking about you.

Unfortunately, radical feminism is very common and it represents a very real force of misandry and discrimination in the world. MERFs, TERFs, and SWERFs are everywhere. And MERFs rarely get called out by other feminists because of how common they are. Mainstream, modern day feminism is almost entirely male exclusionary and refuses to acknowledge the validity and seriousness of men's rights issues.

I understand that not all feminists toe the "party line" with mainstream feminism. And many do legitimately care about men and men's rights. So if you're one of those feminist, then you're not who we're talking about. In fact you really ought to be in agreement with us: become an ally and oppose radical feminism yourself.