I have seen that play out so many times in my life and it happened to me too.
You start to really like a girl, and you make efforts for her, you go on dates and you would like to have a relationship with her. She acts interested and she goes on dates with you but you have to wait like at least a month to sleep with her.
In the meantime if she meets a really hot guy from tinder she will sleep with the guy after just a few hours, giving absolutely no regards for the feelings of the guy that is making some efforts into getting to know her.
It happened to me and after more than 2 years I still think about it all the time and it completely destroyed my self esteem. I was dating a girl that seemed to liked me (she even asked for the first date). She seemed to want to take things slow and I was fine with that. I had alot of feelings for the girl and I thought she was the one. Little that I know while she was taking things slow with me she was sleeping with other guys on the first date. And of course they where your typical hot guys with six packs and all. I was in shock that someone that I thought was a good girl can act like that and I felt betrayed to the core.
I know you are going to say stuff like : "redpill guys date damaged woman" But I liked her especially because she comes from a good family she doesn't go to clubs, doesn't drink, goes to church etc... So it seems like you can't even weed out the woman like that based on anything.
Since then I can't connect with a woman because I keep thinking she will just give it for free to a guy hotter than me while I will have to work to even have a date. It's making me suffer so much to know that a woman will never be physically excited by me, and she will probably just date me because she wants to settle down.
I was browsing the r/Bumble subreddit lately and a guy was saying (with screenshots provided) that he was sleeping with some woman that where dating guys on the side. Maybe he is lying, who knows...
I don't think there is any argument against that. It's just a fact, it's all about looks and some guys have it the others have to deal with it. No amount of exredpill can go against that
Edit : here is for example a discussion on the Bumble subreddit. It's not even a redpill page and yet people are just agreeing with what I say
https://www.reddit.com/r/Bumble/comments/mcokoo/bumble_is_lowkey_the_best_app_for_hookups/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
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