I don't have time to watch the whole thing right now but this is kind of what I'm going through. There's a girl I've known for 14 years since we met in high school. We kind of dated then but went back to being friends. Had some good times over the years but would go long periods of time without seeing each other. She's recently came back into mine and our mutual friends lives and since we last saw her she has had a daughter. I LOVE the little girl, and every time her mom and I hang out we get along like a house on fire. But she likes to keep playing games. One minute she starts kissing me and saying "I love you" while drunk, or next time when she's sober invites me home with her when I'M the drunk one (so drunk I missed her saying it), but then when I try to set up a date or move things forward, she stops texting back or cancels on me. I'm meeting her on Friday and laying it on the line that if nothing is happening here then I'm moving on because I won't be a safety net for someone. Kind of funny to see this pop up here now knowing what's coming Friday.
Thanks. It's hard potentially having to cut someone out of your life you've known so long but it's just at that point and it's what I'd have to do because any time I'm with her I'm head over heels all over. I make significantly more than her and have an amazing job where I work from home full time and have the potential to make even more. She knows I'm starting to shop for a home now, and she's already said when her apartment is up she's either buying a home (which I know she can't do) or moving back with her mom (which I know she won't do.) And I just have too much self respect to just provide her a home and be here as a safety net for her.
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I don't have time to watch the whole thing right now but this is kind of what I'm going through. There's a girl I've known for 14 years since we met in high school. We kind of dated then but went back to being friends. Had some good times over the years but would go long periods of time without seeing each other. She's recently came back into mine and our mutual friends lives and since we last saw her she has had a daughter. I LOVE the little girl, and every time her mom and I hang out we get along like a house on fire. But she likes to keep playing games. One minute she starts kissing me and saying "I love you" while drunk, or next time when she's sober invites me home with her when I'M the drunk one (so drunk I missed her saying it), but then when I try to set up a date or move things forward, she stops texting back or cancels on me. I'm meeting her on Friday and laying it on the line that if nothing is happening here then I'm moving on because I won't be a safety net for someone. Kind of funny to see this pop up here now knowing what's coming Friday.
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Thanks. It's hard potentially having to cut someone out of your life you've known so long but it's just at that point and it's what I'd have to do because any time I'm with her I'm head over heels all over. I make significantly more than her and have an amazing job where I work from home full time and have the potential to make even more. She knows I'm starting to shop for a home now, and she's already said when her apartment is up she's either buying a home (which I know she can't do) or moving back with her mom (which I know she won't do.) And I just have too much self respect to just provide her a home and be here as a safety net for her.
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