So for those who haven't seen it, we've got the "how can she slap" video, and someone just posted to this clip of Gordon Ramsey catching a woman's hand as she tries to slap him (major, major props for his ninja-like reflexes BTW). So, could someone please explain to me why it is that when a man more or less reflexively slaps a woman back after she slap him first (completely unprovoked), that he needs to get the shit beaten out of him. But when a woman tries to slap a man (again, completely unprovoked), she needs to be comforted and calmed down.