I'm tired of seeing guys describing what they are looking for in a woman as if they are some MILF from the 1980s, "just that she'll be nice, and if possible cute". "Cute" and "nice" was for decades how women described their expectation of a man, and men, wanted, want, and will always want, SEXY.

AND YOU ARE ALLOWED TO WANT SEXY.

Men are different from women. In contrast to what women were led to believe by the feminist womansplaining of men, men never had one uniform ideal for a woman (I personally always liked curvy girls, always, slim is to me not sexy. At all). Women are the ones who have a uniform ideal for men, because they are fashion victims and each generation of women has one archetype of an ideal man. These change by fashion, it's a matter of luck whether you are born in a generation where the female expectation happens to be you - in the 60s they liked ugly dirty hippies (I love hippies, don't get me wrong), in the 70s the rocker, in the 80 girlish slim guys with sunken heroin eyes, in the 90s THE DJ (Mr. Big was the socially-acceptable choice when speaking to other women but they actually wanted THE DJ), the 2000s was the age of boy-men (Brad Pitt), now it's that 6-6-6 (feet, figures, pack) - but, men were always with different tastes and when you say you want sexy this never falls to the feminist criticism of "driving young girls to chase an unachievable ideal" - it's a lie, girls are the ones who create those detached uniform ideals for women, not guys. Guys have a variety of tastes in women and always had them, and leaving extremities aside, more or less every female sexiness-type has the men who prefer that type and for whom that's the supreme female sexiness - leaving aside extremities almost every woman on earth (or at least the famous "80% of women" that men swipe right) can find those men who would adore her specific beauty - FEMINISM IS LYING WHEN SAYING ABOUT MEN OTHERWISE TO USE THE FALSE ACCUSATION TO BAN FOR MAN THE FREEDOM TO WANT SEXY, as if if men would be free then "all women will be oppressed by one beauty ideal" - lie, there is no such one male expectation, men are different from women, they are versatile in their tastes, and the ideal is different between different men.

You are a man. Men are attracted to sexy - each with what's sexy in his eyes. It's important - if you don't marry the girl you find sexy, after two years you won't be able to have sex, if you do marry sexy (according to your personal sexy), even 15 years later she would be what you want.

Don't let feminists tell you what is allowed for you as a man - you are allowed to want a sexy girl. That's what a man is. Feminist oppression won't change that, and women too, don't want to be with someone who chose them because of their hobby - they neeeeeed to know they are SEXY in your eyes. That's humanity - tell that to feminists when they harass you for saying you want SEXY (and if women, who don't really care about external sexiness, get to say "tall, well built" and all those things they say just because they feel around them a female social expectation of them to say that even though they don't really care about that, you who actually do need it can definitely say you want sexy - according to what's sexy for you).