You're not evil for being attracted to some women and not others

that-manss · 2021-05-13T20:51:44+00:00

Psychology suggests there are two universal “attractive” traits in people

Youthfulness and health

Punder_man · 2021-05-13T22:07:44+00:00

Its worse than that..

If you are NOT attracted to heavily overweight females then your a misogynistic bigot!
If you ARE attracted to them then you are "fetishicsing" them and thus you are a misogynistic bigot!

You can't win with them...

killcat · 2021-05-13T21:08:56+00:00

Yes and no. I get what you're saying- Yes, mostly humans want to breed with an attractive human so that our offspring is attractive and it increased the chances of passing our genes. Feminists are insane if they think they can influence nature by ranting about HAES or whatever nonsense they want. Here's the thing though- Large populations tend to create large variation in genetics mutations and can lead to various prerequisites for what one finds attractive. This is why it's not a choice to be attractive to shapely attractive people, or being gay, or asexual, or whatever; you're just born that way. Or why you prefer skinny girls to fat girls, or beards over mustaches, or blondes to redheads, even fat girls to skinny girls, or nice legs or steak rare instead of well done, or purple instead or red, whatever, we're all unique.

The species as a collective can afford to sacrifice a few of these genetic variations because other people are making enough babies.

maritalades · 2021-05-13T21:06:46+00:00

Speaking as a fat, ugly man, I dont like fat, ugly women. 😃

MattKitten11 · 2021-05-14T06:25:47+00:00

And these women are allowed to not like obese men just because.

irrelevantmoniker · 2021-05-13T20:21:45+00:00

It's not dumb, its very well calculated and they learned it off of christianity.

If you say that something that's involuntary is a transgression then they have something you need to apologize and recompense for, and if its involuntary they're guaranteed to have it.

If you need to give recompense to be absolved of your transgression then they can demand sacrifice and work from you.

It's precisely arranged to make sure you are in the position of a wretched sinner who needs to strive towards their forgiveness.

Throwaway_Old_Guy · 2021-05-13T22:13:42+00:00

There was a time when being overweight was considered desirable because it meant you had access to enough abundance (read, wealthy) that you could be overweight.

Today, nearly everybody has easy access to food, and being overweight most likely indicates a lack self-discipline.

RobDog101 · 2021-05-13T22:06:05+00:00

I support this message so hard. I’m shocked sometimes to see how regressive feminism is. As a gay man I recognize echoes of the fear mongering and moral panics against gay men (and specifically and uniquely men—we must never forget or gloss over that fact by conflating the experiences of gay men with those of lesbians) in the absurd, moralizing, intellectually dishonest language used against male sexuality today. There has been a definite and sharp departure in feminism and neoliberal identitarian circles in general from the recognition of the fact that people don’t choose whom they find sexually attractive—if that recognition was ever even sincere in the first place and not just politically convenient rhetoric.

JoeSmith1907 · 2021-05-14T00:40:17+00:00

But it's not dumb. It fits right into their playbook. Suppose women become feminists because they're unattractive. Suppose men don't date unattractive women. Then how are the unattractive women going to get their beta bux? By gettingmen to date unattractive women, that's how. And if men don't want to do that, they'll brainwash and shame them into doing that. It might not work in practice but it looks good on paper.

Angryasfk · 2021-05-14T09:23:08+00:00

Unfortunately some are asserting exactly that.

DiamondDiggler · 2021-05-14T14:14:44+00:00

I like slim women who can cook.

It's always those feminist body positivity cunts who scream and wail at me when I say this.

Jesus Fucking Christ.

incarnate1 · 2021-05-14T01:33:19+00:00

Current SO is 45kg, last girl was 50kg. IDGAF about fat women tears.

If women can select men based on height, we can select women based on weight. It's only fair.

alternativelyACCTD · 2021-05-14T13:38:13+00:00

On the same topic, you are not transphobic for refusing to date trans women.

ThisIsTheEnd6 · 2021-05-13T20:28:08+00:00

I really don't think feminists say you are obligated to be attracted to all women. They are saying that women shouldn't be ashamed of their bodies. And I agree. Neither should men.

This is a weird post.

Body positivity is a good thing for everyone.

Title	You're not evil for being attracted to some women and not others
Author	TigPlaze
Upvotes	122
Comments	62
Date	May 13, 2021 8:06 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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