Abu Hurayrah (Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “By the one in whose hands is my life, there is not a man who calls his wife for sexual intimacy and she refuses him except that Allah becomes angry with her until her husband is pleased with her.” (Sahih Muslim, No. 1436)

Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: ‘If a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses [and does not come], and he spends the night angry with her, the angels will curse her until morning.’” [al-Bukhari 4794]

The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: By the One in Whose hand is the soul of Muhammad, no woman can fulfil her duty towards Allah until she fulfils her duty towards her husband. If he asks her (for intimacy) even if she is on her camel saddle, she should not refuse.” [Ibn Maajah, and was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani]

The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “When a man calls his wife for sexual intimacy, then she should come, even if she is (busy) in the cooking area.” (al-Tirmidhi & al-Nasa’i)

The ahadith show the importance of a woman's obedience when it comes to fulfilling her husband's sexual needs. If she refuses sex without valid reason (illness, menses) then this is haram and she is sinful and Allah and the angels become angry with her until her husband is pleased with her.

The irony of this all, is that feminism promotes the exact opposite of what Islam teaches. Feminism encourages women to withhold sex from their husbands in bed, because "it is empowering and keeps him on his toes," thus using sex as a weapon. This is something that Islam strictly prohibits and the meaning of the hadith of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) on this matter are clear.