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[–]Beyondthet 1 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"But I want to get married to have children" How many times have we heard that? Everyone wants to have children. But why?
First of, it's worth mentioning right off the bat that there is a 50% you may not even get to raise your child because there is a 50% chance your marriage will even in divorce and your ex wife will take custody of the children by law. So what's the point in having children if you don't even get to raise them?
And secondly, the only benefit for raising children in Islam is so that you raise them piously and they will make duaa for you on your behalf.
The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him and give him peace) said, “When a Muslim dies, his actions are cut off from him except from three, continual charity (sadaqa jariya), knowledge he benefited from or a righteous child who supplicates for him” [Muslim]
What's is the chance that you will raise your child piously and that they will pray for you when you pass away? Highly unlikely. Especially if you have a daughter. I mean just look at the examples above. Is that the kind of daughter you would want to raise? One that deletes/hides you from her contacts so she can flirt with random men? Or stay out late at night with random men and not answer your calls?
[–]-MagicAcid- 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah it's not worth risking my akhirah. No matter how piously you raise them, their environment and society will always be the dominant force.
I'm not risking it. I'm not risking being a Dayooth on Yawn Al Qiyamah, and missing out on Jannah and it's delights all because my daughter wanted to imitate Cardi B and these other whores.
Big facts
[–]PreviousAmbassador5 1 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That’s a tad pessimistic enit. You not planning to raise a family then? 😅
That’s a tad pessimistic enit.
You're speaking from a place of projection. None of which come from a place of facts. The point I am making is, the only benefit that Islam acknowledges about raising family is that they be pious. Is this right or wrong? Besides that, there is no benefit of having family. So, if you cannot raise your family to be pious then there is no benefit to your akhirah this will bring you. Period. And we all know raising children in this day and age PIOUSLY is a tough task. And some people may not be able to achieve this task and that's fine. They shouldn't be shamed or lampooned for not desiring to have a family. This doesn't make them any 'less' Muslim.
[–]RREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE 1 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In all honesty, she's not even that bad compared to other "sisters." In fact, this one is just like an angel--so to speak! Goes to show how far we've fallen off as a community.
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