What do I mean by this? Stop approaching women. Look, y'all have to understand even the most average looking girl, will have thousands of guys worshipping her in her dms, in irl, and all. You don't want to be the 1001th guy that she rejects and makes you loose your self respect.
If a girl sincerely likes you, she will approach you. She will make signs, that she likes you. Because if every guy is going after her, You don't want to be just another guy chasing her, making her more entitled and egoistic and validating her ego.
Now if any of you women gonna be like, "That's not manly" that's not this and that if the guy is not "chasing" you. You know what? Y'all have hundreds of guys worshipping you, I don't want to be just "another" guy.
My take to you gentlemen is, do not approach/dm women, or chase women. If she really likes you, she will approach you. Otherwise your just "another" of the thousands of guys who wanted her. In conclusion GYOW, and do not approach women. If a girl that meets your standards, character wise, deen wise first then beauty, and if SHE approaches you, then take a chance. Otherwise like I said you just dont want to be another guy, and if none of this happens anyway, don't be afraid to GYOW. Because this life is too short for all these things.That's it.
