Crosspost "Finding a Muslim HVM" from /r/FemaleDatingStrategy:


I don't know if anyone has posted about this but how does one navigate being a finding a Muslim HVM?

I've come with some pointers from myself and my friends:

-Do not cave in from cultural pressure to settle. Keep your standards high when looking for a man. Your parents could manipulate you.

-Look for how he respects his faith. Is he consistent?

-How does he treat his family, and more specific his mother or sisters? Does he have a good relationship with them?

-If a Muslim guy does not tell his parents about you in the early stages, don't bother.

-If he has social media does he post about you and keep up with yours? Does he notice the little things?

-Have you met any of his friends? Look at their relationship statuses, professions and hobbies? Birds of the same feather flock together.

-Does he mention his exes or keep in contact with them? Or does he leave the past in the past?

-Ask him about his view on the world and what he thinks about women's role in Islam is.

If anyone has any contributions/experiences please discuss!

Edit: I think some people are misinterpreting my post. I am a Muslim woman looking for a Muslim man


Posted by HoneyBouquet | 13 May 2020 | Link