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Would you marry a girl who willingly gave non-muslim men access to her body?

ahmedibnmajid
June 15, 2020
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Title Would you marry a girl who willingly gave non-muslim men access to her body?
Author ahmedibnmajid
Upvotes 0
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Date June 15, 2020 12:07 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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Dayooth coping hard

14 upvotes
June 13, 2020
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Bro speaking facts

1 upvotes
June 14, 2020
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After allowing non-Muslim men to use her body for sex, she now wants to “return to piety” and get a naive Muslim man to marry her. Muslim men deserve better than this.

0 upvotes
June 14, 2020
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[–]abwehrstelle 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I say no to hoes

[–]Imzwer 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

WUHAHAHAHA. Do I look like a slut shelter?

[–]TrynaBeTheBest 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

bruh she's only 21 and was an ex hoe before

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21 is too old

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im marrying an 18 yr old and doing checks before

[–]blueredmuslimnibba 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If i liked her

[–]saif115 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe she is truly remorseful of what she did and we are all humans after all we all sin and unfortunately some of us fall in great sins, so personally i would never marry someone like this. But i hope she become better and find someone equal to her

[–]leopardinstinct 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Based on the recent poll I put, there’s a few who will 😂😂😂

[–]Beyondthet 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Let's be mature about this and fair. What do I think of it? This is bad. Real bad. But she says she wants to change and do tawbah. More power to her. She is not exempt from the mercy of Allah, if she asks for Allah's forgiveness and she is sincere, she will be forgiven. I wish her all the best. But would I compromise on what Islam tells us about marrying a virgin because they are more playful and have less baggage? No, I won't. However, I still pray for her the best.

[–]TripleMaxor 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Not for me. No excuse in my book for being a whoe. All these females try to play the victim card "oh I was young and lost and made up for my daddy being mean by sleeping with all the men and dogs and women tehee I met, but I regret it and you should forgive me".

[–]TrynaBeTheBest 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Let her marry with men who had an equally degenerate life, in all honesty, most times you won't even know her past so it's up to you to find it out

exactly

[–]MagentaMagenta_ 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Let her marry with men who had an equally degenerate life, in all honesty, most times you won't even know her past so it's up to you to find it out

[–]dulqarnayn 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If allah exposes her then so be it, but allah is merciful and she seems sincere in her repentance.

She needs to get rid of her baggage and heal before she looks to get married. This all can be vetted for.

Also if you find out during marriage, you can also divorce her, that is also allowed.

[–]Beyondthet 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Also if you find out during marriage, you can also divorce her, that is also allowed.

Yeah it's quite a simple process really. Except that you'll pay for it. Yay!

[–]dulqarnayn 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

depends where you live, if you are in the U.S. and depending on the state.

Also, she will have to answer to allah as well for being ungrateful and taking half of assets.

[–]Beyondthet 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Also, she will have to answer to allah as well for being ungrateful and taking half of assets.

That's fine but that still doesn't help a man in getting remarried in the dunya. By taking half of a man's wealth and assets he may never be in a financial situation to get married ever again.

[–]Ryanreynolds543 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I read her post and she wants to change, which is great for her, may Allah guide her and forgive her. But if it comes to marriage? No.

[–]downvote-if-gae 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Facts bro. This is what I like to here.

We don’t get to make fun of her or rebuke her as she turned back to ALLAH (SWT).

We also don’t marry people like her as she did something utterly disgusting.

[–]inbredalbino 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

That baggage

[–]AbuKittenAlMeowy 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Absolutely not. Like that one brother said, the more men a girl sleeps with (Halal or Haram, doesn't matter) the more broken she is and she has less value. Every red pilled Muslims goal should be to marry a girl that is pure, no baggage, no past, no heartbreak, no thinking about men from before, she is only for you and you for her.

[–]Beyondthet 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Bro this username is jokes 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[–]Ryanreynolds543 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Woman has been created from a (crooked) rib and she will never continue to be as you desire her to be: so if you enjoy her, enjoy her while crookedness remains in her. If you try to straighten her, you will break her, and breaking her is divorcing her."[Muslim Book 17, Hadith 79]

When women have many relationships and they break up they become broken, and carry such an emotional baggage that it can never be fixed. So who ever marries such a women he will never be happy. She will always compare him to her first, and remember fellas she's not with you, It's just your turn.

[–]dulqarnayn 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I agree with most of what you said but "She will always compare him to her first, and remember fellas she's not with you, It's just your turn." - doesn't this also apply to windowed/divorced women too?

I think you are being harsh here, she seems to want to sincerely repent her sins. She does need to get rid of her baggage and heal first though. This will take time.

May allah guide her.

[–]Beyondthet 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

doesn't this also apply to windowed/divorced women too?

Of course it does, No doubt. The hadith is actually referring to halal relationships. I.e. a divorced woman and it is saying that breaking her is by divorcing her. And this is confirmed by studies, second marriages are more less likely to succeed than first marriages. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.huffpost.com/entry/second-marriages-are-more-likely-to-end-in-divorce-heres-why_n_58b88e38e4b0b99894162a07/amp

That's the reason why the Prophet pbuh encouraged us to marry virgins because they are more playful and come with less baggage.

[–]Ryanreynolds543 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Facts.

[–]weenieandthebutt 1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

She's 21 Marsh'Allah, which is still a really young age and hasn't given away her best years. So I reckon she's really genuine about her remorse, shows humbleness and isn't one of those screechy, entitled postwall women who act like they deserve the stable guy. I don't like promiscuous women as much as the next person but honestly, may Allah (SWT) forgive her, guide her and bless her with a good man and stable marriage so let's not be harsh brothers.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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