https://imgur.com/a/d8FgO4O

Earlier today a previous fwb sent me a bunch of odd rambling messages at like 6am that looked straight out of a thread you'd see on fds or twox.

Some context: We used to fwbs. She's single, career woman, never married, and is a lot older (almost 40) than me. Eventually she caught feels and started talking about her love language, expecting me to pay whenever we went out to eat ect... The part at the end is projection; what I actually said was that I don't think I can give her what she's looking for and that there are a lot of other guys in the area/I'm not special. We stayed in touch/continued to talk, and I ask her to hang out (platonically) occasionally because she struggles with clinical depression and has no other friends in the area.

It should go without saying, but I'm not braindead enough to talk about RP shit and Andrew Tate with girls irl or tell someone to lower their standards, so her going off on this rant was especially bizarre. She always used to send memes shitting on famous men who date younger women (even though I'm more than a decade younger lol) though, which is a good real world example of how women don't really care about age gaps in any sort of intellectually honest way.

This sort of entitled, misandrist behavior and rhetoric is becoming really commonplace today among women. The women all over reddit you see yelling about how men are trash and that single career women are so much happier, are the most miserable women. There's this idea that there are so many angery misogynistic incels out there, but as I've said before, most guys who don't have sex are just normal dudes with jobs, friends, hobbies who struggle socially and/or are unattractive. Women are very quick to talk about how men feel entitled to sex, but how many women feel entitled to a man's money or assistance? Women make their own money now. If you're a woman, how often have you ever offered to pay? The only women to ever pay for dinner/drinks for me, ironically, were platonic friends. Do men have entire subreddits like r/diabla dedicated to swindling men for money? We just had a post on the front page about a single mother berating her neighbor for not helping her.

A lot of modern day western women are being radicalized to turn into entitled misandrists because of how biased every social platform is, and the sort of "men are trash" rhetoric being pushed on all of them. These women may be able to get sex unlike incels, but the measure of a woman's value (in dating, not as a human being) is dependent on the man she can get commitment from.

A woman who is involuntarily single and can't get a decent guy to commit to her is essentially the equivalent of a incel. And much like the problematic subset of incels people complain about, they have a really deep-rooted disdain for the opposite gender, and a sense of entitlement. Only, instead of it being related to sex, it's entitlement to commitment and resources, and entitlement to getting a better man than they can realistically attract.

Ultimately, reality dictates how realistic a person's standards are. There's only so many top ~10-20% men. These sorts of women need to start assessing why they can't attract the type of man they want, and like women tell men to do, look inward at their own attitudes, beliefs, and work on themselves.