This is an extension of my previous post. Women are, by nature, attracted to masculine, dominant traits. Just as men are attracted to feminine, submissive traits. It has been hardwired into our DNA over millions of years of evolution. So it follows that naturally many of them end up on the extreme end of this spectrum and consistently select toxic men who mistreat them.

They make no attempt to conceal this behavior, and frequently take to social media to complain about how all men are assholes, how there are no good men left, how they just want a guy who will treat them right, how “low the bar has been set,” how all they want is a man to perform chivalrous gestures like buying them flowers, sending good morning texts and holding the car door etc. How they are just going to kiss themselves on New Years, just going to remain single for life, be a spinster cat lady etc. This appears to be in stark contrast with the “red flag” memes women post, boasting about their terrible taste in men and how they see toxic signals and jump in with both feet. However, the hopeless romantic theme is the overwhelming sentiment in their posting content. A week later you see a pic on your timeline of them booed up with the same toxic dirtbag they were “finally done with” for the 500th time a week prior.

What does this tell the vast majority of men who are not abusive assholes? Before you tell me “they do want those romantic gestures, they just want it from Chad or .02% of men” or that “they just like guys that are hot regardless of how abusieve they are” if this were the case, I wouldn’t be making this post. That would make perfect sense and there would be no confusion, men date sexy brain dead toxic dingbats too. But that’s not the case, I rarely see well matched couples. 9/10 times these toxic men appear to have no redeeming qualities other than apathy and arrogance that are conflated with confidence and dominance. They are usually very rough looking, many of them downright homely. They look like the guy you bought weed from in that shady apartment who didn’t make eye contact with you, has a beard he hasnt washed in months, or the 300 lb redneck who posts racist memes and has a “landscaping business.”

What is even more bizarre than this phenomenon is that more people aren’t talking about it, and the ones who do are immediately shunned for questioning it. The entire “nice guy” narrative was invented as a knee jerk deflection, and has since evolved into a full blown meme culture of a psychological deconstruction that doesn’t exist in most cases. Yes there is no shortage of spineless betas who feign kindness to get laid, but much like the horrifically misused “incel” it does not fit the subject in question 99% of the time. Women defend their privilege like they say old white men do, the irony and double standards are truly limitless in “feminism.”