I feel like huge portion of the purple pill debate is focused on the part where people together, who gets with who, how long they wait for certain commitments and mile stones, who is still trying to find someone and what are they doing right or wrong, etc. Not a lot of discussion really acknowledges that a huge amount of relationships just turn into a never ending argument and a lot of misery. If I had to guess I'd say one in five people have anything resembling a relationship that actually makes them happier than they would have been on average without it. Why don't we talk about this? It's pretty significant.