Advice for the women out there: No, men are not on dating apps for sex only, you are simply matching with guys way out of your league

This is something that rarely gets said, and is quite a touchy subject matter.

Tons of women complain online that guys don't put any effort into talking with them, only wish to discuss sexual encounters. Basically guys are on online dating platforms to fuck.

The reason many women perceive this to be the case is that they simply match with guys way out of their league. The top guys on dating apps have a wide selection of women available to them, and they are far more unlikely to be looking to settle with a soulmate in their 20s/30s than women are.

Every women who does perceive men to be sex hungry beasts on tinder etc, I challenge you to match with a couple of the "ugly" guys out there. See the difference in effort they will put into communicating with you on average.

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TLDR: Uncomfortable truth is that men have higher standards for "girlfriend material" than they do for one night stands.

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ps. I am not saying this is the whole story, but it's one aspect of it that rarely gets mentioned.