Per usual I'm inspired by another OP, "What does the sex/dating life of the average man look like?"
I don't have an original thought!
The previous OP described the average man as such:
For some reference, the average American man is 5'9.5, overweight, doesnt have much of a fashion sense, makes around 30k a year, has a highschool diploma with some college but no degree and a 5.1 inch penis.
Another poster replied with a sentiment I share:
It's an interesting blindspot that none of you ever talk about what this mans personality and lifestyle are like
I agree that posts like that OP never take into into consideration the guy above’s personality and lifestyle, which conveniently leaves a lot of important “ability to attract pussy” context out.
I know a lot of men within the manosphere lean "black pill" in that they believe the sole reason they are suffering with the ladies is how they look, but that's simply not been my experience.
IRL, most "frat bros" and the like are average looking af. They just have most things I list in the title of this OP. They get casual sex.
I personally know a bunch of dudes with average bodies and faces and styles and jobs, but as a hobby they’re musicians or DJs or host parties or are active in coveted orgs; and they have warm sociable personalities. They get casual sex.
I've been on PPD for years and so I've exchanged photos with a enough self-proclaimed "incels" and "average chumps" -- the overwhelming majority of them aren't ugly. It's glaringly obvious to me the reason they suffer is because they lack the qualities in my title, but let them tell it, it's because "they don't look like Chad."
In the real world, Chad doesn't look like "Chad." He acts like "Chad."
Discuss!
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