On this subreddit, I mainly see men and women divided into two groups: the scared and the angry. The scared men typically focus on divorce rape, being cucked in an ltr, false rape accusations, and getting left for a "better" man. Scared women usually focus on rape and male violence. Angry men tend to focus on gold diggers, difficulty in satisfying their libido, women's absurd standards of attractiveness, lack of parental rights, high n-counts, lack of quality partners for ltr, cultural obligations like the draft and being "stoic," lack of resources for male abuse victims, and lack of resources for homeless men. Angry women tend to focus on rape, pump-and-dumping, sexual objectification, men's bitterness about not having enough sex, men's percieved entitlement to sex, not being taken seriously in a professional setting, men's absurd standards of attractiveness, the negative effects of porn, low-quality options for partners, and the general laziness men often show in sex.

I put forth the argument that all of this stems from dehumanizing the opposite sex and refusing to actually take the time to discuss issues calmly without pointi g fingers. I think all of that stuff is worthy of deep discussion and deserve an active attempt at solutions. Both men and women are truly suffering from issues imposed by both genders. Men are incredibly lonely while women are fearful pretty much 24/7. It's no wonder that there is so much hostility between them. If everyone just treated each other like human beings, we wouldn't have 90% of these issues. If you want your pet problems resolved, be willing to listen to the other side more.

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