If a guy is at least within the average range with regards to genetic physicality, then he has the raw physical goods to attract hookups and relationships.
If he is unable to attract either, within reason, then it is likely because he has an “unattractive personality” and/or some level of “maladaptive socialization.”
And yes, "hookups" are something even the physically genetically average man can achieve as explained by PickleLine.
Please refer to the below legend before replying:
Now let's define terms!
"Average genetic physicality" means he possesses more of the following than not:
"Sexually Unattractive Personality" means he relates to any of the following than not:
- For men, it's especially a guy who LACKS masculinely attractive behavioral attributes, which are defined here.
- For example, this could mean being excessively high-inhib, socially inept, antisocial, neurotic, diffident, defeatist, etc.
- For example, it could also mean being neurodivergent
- For example, this could mean having a mental disorder, depression disorder, anxiety disorder, and so forth.
- For example, it can mean being on the polar extremes of what many believe to be the "normie" personality to be
- etc.
"Maladaptive Socialization" means he relates to any of the following than not:
- This is a guy with limited social perceptiveness (guys like this often struggle to attract male and female friends)
- This is a guy who doesn't possess the socially astute presence of mind to even think to "looks-max" nor to "status-build" nor to "hone his behaviorally attractive skillset," as the key to female arousal is a combo of: LOOKS + FRAME + STATUS
- -This is a guy who doesn't possess the socially astute presence of mind to know that only engaging video games and forums for 18+ years will lead to him struggling to establish the skills of rapport-building IRL.
- This is a guy who doesn’t see the benefit in mixed friend groups and “hanging out” and “socializing because it’s “normie fun” but also complains about missing out on “relational fun.”
- This is a guy who hits many of the bullets as described by this user.
- etc.
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