There's a common thread running through the sub about women being responsible for their own orgasm. Which, I agree, that needs to be a thing.

But let's be clear. The guy that can take control and knows all the right moves and can tap into both the emotional and physical without being told how is going to alpha widow this poor girl. She's going to remember this sex forever.

So you men can demand equality all you want, and lament that women should tell you what she likes, and she might have some pretty good sex. But it will never be the mind blowing best sex of her life.

You decide if you're good with being an ok, forgettable lover or the guy she never forgets.

Edit: "He just gets it" doesn't necessarily mean he was born a 100% natural. It might have been learned, but that's irrelevant. The point is he just gets it NOW.